how did you moms deal with having to leave your children at a daycare?
my son is 1 and I know it's gonna be tough for him Cuz he's only used to being with me😔 if I would of have done this when he was a baby it would of been easier (on him still not on me😭)
any moms of one year olds at daycares?
Jessica corderoМама двоих (младенец)
Hahahaha girl you have no idea. Her words have got way more clear since she started. It's fun though, she's a pain in the ass but it's fun lol
Elvira CuervoМама двоих (младенец)
Its better to do it now that he's small, I never left my daughters side since she was born and when she started kindergarten she cried for 2 weeks straight. it was so hard for me to leave her crying screaming for me. !!!
Monica HerediaМама двоих (младенец)
@elismommy428, I worked in a day care also. I know first hand how much he will love leaning new experience with children his own age! The teacher's are good at getting everyone to play well with others also! I'm not saying it's not tough! Because It will be for a little bit for you both! PRAYERS
Valeria AlonsoМама сына (1 год)
😂😂😂 I can't wait to get there! (sarcasm) lol all he says rn now is mama papa and look! doesn't really say it right but he tries, and even just with that he doesn't stop 😂 @_jessica_xoxo
Jessica corderoМама двоих (младенец)
@elismommy428, yeah definitely! My daughter was sooooo bad with sharing and she had the worst temper playing with other kids but just a month in and she's already a lot better. She loves playing with kids now and it's helping her with her talking too. Now I can't get her to shut up lol
Valeria AlonsoМама сына (1 год)
it's so sad! @mami2d but you at least get to be with your baby girl again, you have a reason
Valeria AlonsoМама сына (1 год)
yeah that's another thing everybody tells me, he need to learn how to be around other kids, he plays but then starts throwing stuff and even hitting so I know he'll learn so many things @_jessica_xoxo thanks momma! I needed to hear that
Jessica corderoМама двоих (младенец)
I just started babygirl in daycare about a month ago and she's 2. It was hard at first but now she LOVES it and she's always coming home talking about her friends. I know your son is younger and probably not talking as much as her yet but once you see he likes it, it'll all be worth it. It's good for them to be around other babies. 😊 you'll be alright mama.
Monica HerediaМама двоих (младенец)
@elismommy428, Yes she was! My mother-in-law is not in The USA anymore. She wanted to go back home to The Domain Republican! She wasn't happy here!
Valeria AlonsoМама сына (1 год)
aww! I wish wish WISHHH he had that help, but my mother and mother-in-law are in México so we just don't have anyone 😭 it would make things so much easier, but I get why you felt like that she was still so little, but sometimes we just gotta do what we gotta do and it's all for them @mami2d
Monica HerediaМама двоих (младенец)
No! I'm had a hard time when I had my first baby my daughter! I cried and cried just thinking about leaving her with my wonderful mother-in-law! I went back to work 9 weeks after she was born! I got the opportunity to stay home with her after two or three months after that! Dew to my mother-in-laws medical needs (High blood pressure)
Valeria AlonsoМама сына (1 год)
I know ! that's what I've been telling myself 😔 that I'm doing this for him. I guess as soon as I see he's liking it and that he's okay that's when I'll be more comfortable leaving him😭 @allyk.xmommy
AllyМама сына (1 год), беременна (5 нед.)
I hope things get easier for you hun. I go crazy when I have to leave my son or step kids with someone even if it for 30 min. it sucks. I have to remind myself i do what I do for them. and only them.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.
Today we had to say goodbye and tomorrow ill have you home with us again. I love you, my baby. You're absolutely perfect. They let me hold him till I was ready. I would have stayed the night but my mom told me to kiss him and love him and walk out and now he is my angel baby.
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
Ally·Мама сына (1 год), беременна (5 нед.)
@elismommy428, definently
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