So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
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@angelreaper171 he didn't like that I didn't even hesitate to throw around the word divorce. I told him if he thinks the grass is greener on the other side that he can be my guest and go, but he will loose everything that he has. I told him I don't do ultimatums. If you cheat, I file for divorce. Simple as that.
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@lost.sock.thief yeah, he has never said anything like that to me before. He is normally very understanding about my feelings and my needs.
@rndmshtt he texted me when he got to work and said no matter that he still loves me. He has yet to apologize for what he said. He is being selfish. He was so understanding at the beginning of this pregnancy and now it's like he could care less.
Give him a handy and tell him to be greatful lol
And I totally agree with @leslyyann,
He’s making empty threats most likely but that’s still not cool whatsoever
I’m sure you already know this but he’s not acting the way a man should act towards a woman
@thegermanmommy, he probably didn’t mean it , he was just horny & sexually frustrated but he shouldn’t say that bc things like that hurt us! & we take everything serious .. guys tend to talk more then they suppose to when they mad or want it there way at times .. when they hit they breaking point . Just let him chill & talk about it .. I doubt his gonna say that shit & then cheat on you .. he was just talking thru his ass cause he wanted some sex lol .
Thats crazy how he held off last time and that was 10 months compared to now, when it has only been weeks. Has he apologized for what he said? I would be so pisssed! I probably would hold off sex. You’re about to have two of HIS kids. How selfish of him! Last thing you need is worry about what your husband might do or do not do.
What's he gonna do when you have this baby and yet again he has to wait 6 weeks or more...I dunno, I wouldn't trust it personally. How disrespectful!
@rndmshtt @missymandaxobb @kamiismommy328 @hailiethewhalie @itslindsss @leslyyann @thisisfeeney @angelreaper171 @ailurophiliac @melissaredfield87 @m_joelle @heidi3581 @brazilynnmommy23 thank you ladies for letting me vent....I really needed that.
@rndmshtt he was horny af. He hasn't gotten any in about 2 weeks because we have been moving. But what I don't understand is he went 10 months without having sex when I was pregnant the first time and this time he is acting like the world is ending.
@missymandaxobb thanks, this is the first time he has ever done this. He knows what will happen if he cheats, he will loose everything.
@kamiismommy328 that is exactly what I was thinking. I was more than willing to help him out in other ways but than he goes off and said what he said and than he had the nerve to ask me to help him out in other was I was like hell no I am not helping you out. Don't even fucking talk to me. And that's how our conversation ended.
@hailiethewhalie he was great when I was pregnant the first time. I couldn't have sex at all per drs orders and this time I can have sex but he isn't being understanding at all.
@itslindsss I just don't understand why he would say that. He has never once said that he would cheat on me and than bam it was like a smack in the face.
@leslyyann this is the first time my husband has not been understanding. I am pretty sure that he is sexually frustrated we just got done moving and that it has been a couple of weeks. So I can understand that. But what I don't understand is why he isn't being understanding about the whole thing.
That just shows what kind of person he is.. if that were my husband I'd leave his ass just for saying that because that shows me the kind of person he is. I'm sorry he said that to you you don't deserve it!
Some guys are & will never be understanding . I’m so happy & grateful my husband is . But at times his just sexually frustrated, and tends to come at me but hey we all get sexually frustrated . We all need that relief. But they gotta understand when you can’t , it hurts then STOP. How doesn’t they turn them off that your in pain smh! Hope it gets better with him understanding hun!
Wow what a douche canoe! Good for you for telling him like it is. You’re effing pregnant and if it hurts then it hurts damn it! I’m sure there are other things you two can do but honestly why would you even want to please him in other ways with his shit attitude like that!? Uh uh, fuck that. 🙅🏻♀️
Wow! He'd be willing to risk everything just for sex? That's a douche move, I'm sorry you're dealing with that.
I cant believe he went as far as telling you he would cheat if you do not have sex with him.
What a b.s excuse. I wonder, is there a deeper meaning in that? Does he already have a certain person in mind? Or is he just horny af.
I get it, some people really need intimacy. There are other options out there that he can try besides being unfaithful. Maybe explore those other options with him?
But definitely, if having sex hurts you. Don’t do it.
@thisisfeeney I have gone from being pissed to just flat out disappointed. I told him not to talk to me until he gets his head out of his ass.
@angelreaper171 I don't play around when it comes to cheating. I have been cheated on before (before i met my husband) and stuck around and it was awful. I won't that mistake a second time
@ailurophiliac, I agree. The fact that he’s even entertaining the idea is awful.
@ailurophiliac the thought did cross my mind.
@thegermanmommy, like dam it’s not like you have y’alls beautiful baby growing inside you or anything. I’d be so pissed.
He kept saying to me "but can you blame me if I cheat?!" Like yes mf I can blame you, it's not my fault you don't have more self control.
@melissaredfield87 yeah....he is being very selfish. And it's not like I didn't try. We always had an agreement that I would at least try but if it hurt too much that he couldn't get mad at me for telling him to stop. It's like that just flew right out the window.
@angelreaper171 he didn't like that I didn't even hesitate to throw around the word divorce. I told him if he thinks the grass is greener on the other side that he can be my guest and go, but he will loose everything that he has. I told him I don't do ultimatums. If you cheat, I file for divorce. Simple as that.
I’m sorry but that is so damn disrespectful!! How dare he say that to you and we are not dogs we don’t have sex on there command either he can understand his pregnant wife needs, jack off or there’s the door bye!!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Ladies...if your husband has a friend of the opposite sex who is asking for advice from him about what to do about her cheating husband....how would you feel about it? Would you even let that conversation go on? I would like to get every and any opinion on this matter
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
just told hubby that one of my fears is him cheating on me bc i don't give him sex or bjs. he told me to stop it. also told him i couldn't help the way I feel.
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@rndmshtt @missymandaxobb @kamiismommy328 @hailiethewhalie @itslindsss @leslyyann @thisisfeeney @angelreaper171 @ailurophiliac @melissaredfield87 @m_joelle @heidi3581 @brazilynnmommy23 thank you ladies for letting me vent....I really needed that.