Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I need some advice my babies father gets really mad when he drinks liquor. He woke me up and started a big argument about the thermostat he completely destroyed the room and choked me this is the 2nd time he has done this. I'm going to church today and I'm not sure of what to do when he starts calling and texting to talk to me because he realized he messed up. I need some advice and solutions to help the problem.
??? My child is NOT disgusting just because he has HFMD. I feel beyond awful that he even has it, but now I feel like facking shat since my family makes it seems like he's so disgusting. I'm just gonna lay in bed and cry ??
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
shakala·
Мама сына-младенца
Have you reached out for help ?
Steph·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@klove23, I see a therapist. She wants to admit me to a "hospital" for 5150 holds when I get real bad but nobody will watch my son for me so I can't go. It sucks because when I go in, it really helps me. My family just figures I'll suck it up and deal with it like I have EVERY OTHER THING in my life. I just wish my son would get on a normal sleep schedule.
Robbie·
Мама дочки (4 года), беременна (38 нед.)
Damn 😕 that's gotta be tough. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'd be happy to lend an ear. What all have you tried to get him on a sleep schedule?
shakala·
Мама сына-младенца
@sktraum, that's must be soo hard to deal with. I'm sorry your going through it honestly. And I know what it's like to suffer from mental illness and have people expect you to suck it up because you make it look easy when it's really not ! But I seen that you have an older daughter, she wouldn't be willing to watch him while you seek treatment? I know having him on a better schedule would help but for how long, you know? Getting that help you need would warrant much better results!
Steph·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Thanks @harleyquinn420 The only thing I know to do is keep him up during the day which he only takes 2 half hour naps a day and put him to bed later but none of that works.