Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Need some advice I started coughing and had to pee went to go use the bathroom and I was bleeding and I'm 35 weeks pregnant
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Okay ladies I need some help me and my husband haven't done it sense I got pregnant and by done it I'm assuming all of you know what I'm talking about sense were all mommy's on here or soon to be mommy's but anyways I need a new look something to help me recreate that spark we had before I got pregnant I tried getting advice from one of my close friends but sense she isn't a mom or married she doesn't understand and told me you can't be sexy while pregnant so now I'm asking you ladies for advice on what to do how to change my look up some to get him to look at me the way he use to and maybe start up that spark again so any advice would be helpful thanks.
I need some advice my ex and I broke up November 27th and we haven't gotten along at all since we have fought almost ever day since we broke up and its about everything but our daughter. Now I have this great opportunity to move to New York with my sister and work in one of the biggest hospitals. He is telling me I can't take my daughter with me when this move can benefit from my kids and me. I've decided I'm going to go means I will be leaving in 2 months. But he's telling me if I leave he will take my daughter from me what should I do? Neither one of us has custody of her yet. Plus I have a son with another man and he is letting me take my son.
Jessica·
Мама четверых детей
@ladiiv, would you want some1 to do that to your lil girl (If Not) Then don't accept anything from any1 that you wouldn't want for baby girl cuz now it's about your child & 9/10 the abuse gets worst if you don't put your foot down
Alicia·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
I live in jersey so I don't know what's available by you but I promise there is a way. do not give up and act fast. most of the times the abuse gets worse each time
Lehigh Acres·
thanks that was a lot of helpful information I've been looking for a place that would help me @pinupmama
Alicia·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
there is alot of program out there to help women in domestic abuse situations. no matter how much you love him. he could kill you. he could have killed your daughter. don't you dare think you are safe if he is sober. there are churches and government agencies that will help give you first and last month's rent to get a place. just go to a police station and talk to an officer. they will help you figure out a get away plan
Lehigh Acres·
thanks
Tiffany·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I'm sorry to hear that @ladiiv . I hope you can figure it out . And wish you the best . Don't let it drive you crazy , you have a little one in you to think about as well . ❤️
Lehigh Acres·
its time he has had more than enough chances he can't keep his hands off me I love him but I gotta love him from a distance and we stay together so its a lot i got to do @ms.jones
galdamezbaby2016·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (18 нед.)
we women are worth very very much beyond,last year my brother threw me down and dragged me across my mom's kitchen on a head lock,I scratched the crap out of his eye and chest,as soon as he let go,I called 911....not one man will lay a hand on me unless I allow it,I can careless if it was my brother,he got arrested right there and then,he tried to blame me that it was me who attacked but police weren't stupid they saw it as an act of self defense.....(this was all because he could not handle a tiny argument and kept telling me to keep my mouth shut or he'll hit me,of course I couldn't keep shut what he was saying was insulting,and had closed his bedroom door on my daughter) you can leave if you choose to! and let me tell you my mom was so pissed at me when he was locked up,I remember telling her no man will treat me such whoever it is, (my mom let her husband sexually molest me and by that I mean she asked and I told her and she didn't do anything about it,I was about 4ish,5)I thought I was alone it was the world against me,I also got her husband to court for a restraining order because the Xmas of 2013 he tried to force his face into mine) sorry I told more then I should,but I hope you do what is right,you won't have regrets,WOMEN POWER
Zentiana·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (19 нед.)
Leave him. Go to a friend or family member you trust. Or look online for places to go. I've had to do it before. it's scary but you will be much better off in the end
Tiffany·
Мама двоих (6 лет, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I won't say leave because if it was that simple then you wouldn't be posting . (I'm assuming) you need to have a serious conversation with him about putting his hands on you and about his drinking . Your about to be a mother so what's going on with him is bigger than just yourself . That has to be scary , but make sure you give him some time to sober up before speaking to him . Sometimes it's easier by text to get out how your feeling without being nervous . If it still doesn't change you know it's time to put on your walking shoes . Because if you don't put your foot down now , it will keep happening . Trust me I know .
Lehigh Acres·
I'm just so scared I need some older people to talk to I honestly Dont have anyone else not even my own mother or father
francesca·
and i went thru the same so if u want call me just message me and ill give u my digits i feel so bad u shouldnt deal with that
francesca·
leave his ass
Emma·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
just leave call the cops tell them what he did. And how it isn't the first time. they will arrest him that will give you enough time to pack just the necessities then get out of there and go to a friends or a parent(if your sure they won't let him in) do you really want to take the risk of him further hurting you or hurting your unborn daughter? if you know he will put his hands on you if you try to leave then call the cops first so hes gone.
Amber·
Мама троих детей
leave his ass.my husband did the same thing to me over and over...and I finally had enough I had him arrested and he hasn't touched me since .
Allatha Marie ·
Мама подростков, ждёт третьего
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Terressia·
LEAVE NOW! My oldest son's father fought me when I was 8 months pregnant with him. I was kicked in the back and stomach. It's not safe leave now honey.
Carla·
В ожидании первенца
I have been in a relationship like this sweetheart and I promise it only gets worse took me three years and almost dying to finally leave I had my cousin come get me with 2 guys in case he tried something again but I never told anyone where I was so he couldn't find me only personal family I was 19. Hardest decision I ever had to make but I did and believe me I when I say I wouldn't be alive today if I would have stayed. If you need to talk I'm here!
Sydney·
В ожидании первенца
Leave him! Immediately
Lehigh Acres·
I am 2 times is enough for me I tried to make it work but its only so much I can take so yeah you guys just put it in my head I need to leave him
Allatha Marie ·
Мама подростков, ждёт третьего
Listen To These Ladies Sweetheart...
Lehigh Acres·
thank you so much its just so hard I gotta just get out when he's gone it's the only way
nichole·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
call the cops right now do not hesitate. it really is not worth your life or your baby's life
Allatha Marie ·
Мама подростков, ждёт третьего
Domestic Violence Hotline 1800-799-SAFE And They Will Protect You In A Safe House And All...Please Stop With The Excuses For Him Baby Because You Are About The Same Age As My Daughter And If You Was My Daughter I Would've Been Blown His Head Off With My Gun...One Thing I Hate Is Violence Against Woman And Children!
courtney·
Мама двоих (9 лет, 12 лет), ждёт третьего
leave and do it when he's not there or call the cops
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год)
it's not going to get better. and I'M telling you this from experience.... one night after our baby was born he was so mad since I wouldn't let him drive my car because he was drunk. he ended up punching me in the face and slapping me over and over. got a fat black eye. he just wouldn't stop. scariest thing ever. I moved out after that. because if he can do all that while our daughter is in the house he can't be trusted.... for SHIT! we'd have little arguments before with small physical contact and I thought it would get better... but yea it's hard hun but ppl like that need real professional help
Lehigh Acres·
yea that's the only thing I can honestly think of doing but sometimes when I try to leave he won't let me leave and when I try he chokes me and pushes me up against the wall and it's scary cause all I try to do is protect my baby girl
Allatha Marie ·
Мама подростков, ждёт третьего
Wake Up Babygirl This Is Domestic Violence Stop It Or One Day It Will Be Your Last... Make No Excuses For That Little Boy Because A Real Man Doesn't Put His Hands On His Woman!
rgaine·
В ожидании первенца
Leave! Only one bad night of drinking and it could be your child he's shaking or choking when he gets mad. He needs to be in treatment pronto.
Danielle·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
leave his ass behind... if he ever does it again call the cops and file a report... your baby doesn't need to everyone around that.. what if once the baby is born he decided to take it out on the baby instead of you.. it's not worth it.. leave him in the dust
michala·
id leave him
love·
The only thing i can think of is leave before it gets any worse!