Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
avoiding ridicule Do you ladies think it's materialistic to buy your lo brand name clothes shoes etc so he won't be singled out in school?
Tired of arguing with BD over baby names. Every time we discuss names he feels like he has the final say so in naming our son....he wants to name him Lion......I hate that name for obvious reasons (Come the hell on dude....LION....seriously?!?!?! 😤) I'm stuck between 2 names Jaydyn or Josiah. I want my son to have a name that he'll be proud to put on a resume or that he won't get denied a job over. But his father and I clash every time his name is brought up. I'm 4 weeks away from my due date and I'm honestly not looking forward to that moment when we have to sign the birth certificate...it's gonna be a huge argument because I absolutely REFUSE to name my child Lion 🦁⬅ 😤😡💣💣💣🔫🔫🔫
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I don't even care for the middle name!!!! Lol but I did agree because of the reason behind it... But it wasn't my Idea for sure!
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@littlelentil, I'm seriously thinking about it. I told him before if he didn't get on board with us doing it together that I was naming him what I wanted and if I'm feeling generous I'll just name him the name I really want along with the first one he choose which is the one his wants. Baby will just have 4 names.... Because I agreed on middle name (which tonight he claims the middle name was my idea) smh
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@reeney, yes first son for both of us. And I tried the letter thing n he just wants to name him n the letter isn't enough. I'm fine with him naming his son. Honestly. But I have to agree on it. And he thinks I shouldn't. Which is ridiculous to me
Irene·
maybe tell him to pick a letter to start the name and you give him a few suggestions is it his first boy?
Irene·
I just went online got some baby names made them a little different and sent them to him he shot down ALOOOOTT and still won't budge on jaylene for a middle name and I really liked that 😣 but anyways I told him a few other names that started with the letters he wanted and we have a first name now just no middle name
Monique·
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Lol men are such children, please don't name that poor baby boy something ridiculous. 😂 just like nod and agree and than when it comes to actually putting a name down, do it yourself.
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@reeney, glad he likes something you liked! I can't even get him to like the idea of a Jr. And I never wanted a jr! But I'm just so ready to give up figured I would throw it out there n nope he doesn't even want that
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@littlelentil, idk he claims because I named our two girls. But my first daughter was before him n he agreed on our daughters name. I made it up! Literally has all gmas name it plus his sisters name is in there! Lol sooooooo I just don't understand why he is being such a jerk about it
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
@rachel8792,
Brittany Harris·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
I don't think it's fair either! We agreed on our daughters name so why not with our son? He seriously wants to name him Jon snow after game of thrones or irie which is a Jamaican female name! Neither of us are Jamaican btw. Or these other two horrible names after soccer players! And we have been together going on 8 years now n I have never even seen or heard him watching a soccer game😩😩😡
Irene·
my SO doesn't like any middle names I kind of chose the first name I was just saying names I liked now he doesn't wanna change it 😑
Monique·
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Soooo first off, why does HE get to choose the name? Arnt you the one carrying this child and soon to be pushing him out of your body?😇
Rachel·
Мама сына (1 год)
Thats not fair! He should come up with a name with you. You both made this baby, and you have just as much right to name this baby than he does...shoot if not more. You are carrying this baby, you did the right thing by at least letting him chose names so you can figure it out together