Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
How do I break it to baby's daddy that there is NO WAY IN HELL that we are naming this child Lion without starting a huge argument for the night? I'm beyond exhausted from today, and although he's rubbing my stomach and my back the fact that he keeps putting his face in my belly saying "Lion....my little Lion" is making me uncomfortable 😤
pattalee·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (36 нед.)
you stand your ground mama. you have the final say in naming that baby.
Emma·
tell him he can't be serious he must be Lion (lyin) get it ha-ha. but I'm with you I wouldn't name my son Lion. I love both the names you want to name him.
Caitlyn·
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You write / chose the name , write or tell them to put down the name you want. I'm seriously doing that with my boyfriend if he picks some overly stupid name that my child has to live with. 😒
Domenique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
Lion could be a middle and nickname
Dawna·
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I was having the same issue with my husband. If we had a boy he was dead set on his middle name being Blue. Luckily it turned out we're having a girl so that argument ended pretty quickly lol.
Domenique·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет)
Jayden Lion is ok
Ashley Koss·
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If ur not with him why would you care? I'd name him what I wanted.
Angela·
Мама дочки (5 лет)
idk what your particular situation is with him but I can tell you that you don't even have to allow him to be in the room when you fill that out....so fill it out how you want and sign it and if he doesn't like it then he doesn't have to sign bc your signature is all that is needed technically. 😁
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Josiah is so cute!
Beonka·
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@amandahiatt, IKR!! You don't think it sounds ghetto or anything? I want my son to have a strong name that he can be proud of
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)
Lion? Seriously? Ugh. Dudes just don't get it sometimes lol. You could tell him it can be for the middle name if you're ok with that...
Beonka·
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@Mommagotbump16, we already agreed his middle name will be Christopher (his dad's first name)
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@beezy_mcflyy, lol just never heard of it. Definitely different. If he wants it that bad maybe it can be his middle name.
Beonka·
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@amandahiatt, we've already agreed his middle name will be Christopher (his dad's first name)
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)
Well dang. I'd say y'all already compromised on the middle name so you get dibs on the first! I like Josiah or Jayden to go with Christopher 😊
Beonka·
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@Mommagotbump16, YESSS I love both names! He hates them because he has a baby cousin named Jaden (I said we can spell it differently and he'll barely be around the little boy like that because his family is funny acting sometimes) and we originally agreed on Josiah but he stopped liking it because his mom and his grandma didn't like it
Heather·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)
😒 Men. I lean towards Josiah tbh-it's got a cute ring to it!
missy·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
do Josiah I wanted to name my son that but that's my husband brother middle name,that's a better name for resumes
Amber·
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mine has come up with cleatus and leviathan , those are the most stupid names ive ever heard of and he thinks they sound great and I'm like are you serious?!?
Beonka·
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@missytoyou, I'm leaning toward it! I've mentioned that name to doctors, co-workers, and just about EVERYONE loves it
missy·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего
yes I wanted that name so bad,but I'm going to name my son Jeremiah
Beonka·
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@amberr_0302, OMG WTF?!?!? WHAT IS IT WITH MEN AND THESE WEIRD ASS NAMES?? How do they come up with them and think it's ok to name a child that?!?!?
makaylanichole·
I love Josiah! If my niece was a boy we were going to name her Jozayah (JO-Zae-Ah) combo of Josiah/Isaiah 😊
Amber·
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its like they want their children to get made of for their name? I couldn't believe him when he suggested those to me, its just ridiculous , they really need to actually look up some sensible names 😂
Beonka·
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@amberr_0302, OMG WE JUST HAD THAT ARGUMENT!! I told him he'd get made fun of at school, and he said "no he won't and if he does I'll go up to that school and raise hell" SMH NO! I know what it feels like to be teased, I'm not putting my kid through that!!
madi-girlsmama·
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My boyfriend didn't help much with naming her. We'd shoot names back and forth for a while that came to mind but I finally decided on one & he's gone with it for a while now & Then he told me the other day he likes the first name we had more but that he didn't care because he was going to love our daughter regardless of her name.
Beonka·
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@madi-girlsmama, at least you could decide on a name....we're not seeing eye to eye at all, no compromise no nothing
madi-girlsmama·
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Well he got the middle name, it's only fair that you get the first.
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we're naming our son Josiah 😊 I love the name & the meaning behind it!
Beonka·
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@Mrssanderson, I love the name and the meaning too!! I'm leaning towards Josiah lately
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We were torn between Josiah & Javian up until a month or so ago but finally settled on Josiah James. 😊 Hopefully y'all can come to an agreement soon!
Beonka·
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@mrssanderson, I just might have to settle for us (which is something I don't wanna do) but it's looking like Josiah Christopher the more I think about it