Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
My August baby decided she wanted to be a May baby like her big sister. Madison Noelle was born on Tuesday, May 24 at 3:50pm, weighing 2lbs, 13oz and 14". She was born at 27 weeks and has a long road ahead of her. Every day she has been getting stronger and amazing everyone. Please keep us in your prayers, my family and I have a long road ahead of us. Congratulations to everyone and I wish you all wonderful pregnancies and deliveries! ??❤
Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital? I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out a baby?! I would like some private time for just my husband & I!
I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in the bottle it’s nothing wrong with it at all. NOTHING , especially if his doctor already gave me the go ahead. My god, each one teach their own though. it’s 10 am where I am rn , do not come on my post with , articles about whatever. I’ll tell you kiss my ass today.
bria·
В ожидании первенца
I understand completely and think it's so beneficial to have that initial post birth time to bond with the baby as parents. I don't want anyone besides my boyfriend there with me after baby's first born, we've waited to meet her, we created her together! I think you and your SO probably feel the same way and rightfully so. I think it's so awesome your family is respecting your wishes btw! My family is furious which is why I probably won't be telling anyone until she is born already (no going back in time lol😉) let your SO mother complain all she wants, end of the day it's your baby and your birth and your choice. I would probably not tell her until you already have given birth and at least 24 hrs after baby's born. Don't even allow room for her to mess it up. Hope you have a great delivery & congrats!
Morgan·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm all about this being about you, your hubs, and yalls baby! You can tell the nurses that you want NO visitors to you or the baby for however long and they WILL honor that!! You need to be a family before you welcome anyone else in!! I put my foot down about just wanting the two of us in the delivery room. One of the nurses even took pictures for us!
Brianne·
Мама дочки (2 года)
Absolutely nothing wrong with that. In fact the only reason my parents and sister will be there is to watch my 2 year old and have her meet the new baby before going to spend a few days with them.
Rebeckah·
В ожидании первенца
@madibug96, @sarinunez my mom and sister are going to be in the room along with my fiancé. And my fiancé' mom made some comment about being able to make it in enough time to be in the room too, which by the way I already told her I don't want her in the room because it makes me uncomfortable even at the thought of that. And so I set her straight with what I want to happen after I give birth and she went crying to my fiancé saying I didn't want her to see the baby for a whole 48 hours after the baby is born. My mom and sister are going to be leaving right after the birth out respect for my wishes and they understand. But this bitch can't understand that it's my time not hers. Ugh
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
You're not crazy, I'm not calling anyone until after the baby is born. I already told my mom, because she's the only one who is going to feel a way.
Madison·
Мама сына-младенца
don't tell anyone. they'll get over it eventually. we waited the full time we were in the hospital plus 2 days after being released until we announced it