I swear y’all kill me when people ask questions about THEIR child. If my child is 4m or 5m & I put a little cereal in…

If you ask a question, why are you complaining about getting responses? Wouldn't you want to know if you are doing something wrong or dangerous for your child? Or is your ego and pride more important?

This will probably be deleted and blocked because it's a different point of view, but idc.

If something is unsafe, I will speak up. I have no qualms standing up for a child’s safety and well being. If more people did, perhaps this world would be a better place for our kids. Scientific facts outweigh someone’s opinions and feelings. Being a good parent is about staying up to date on the latest medical information, not playing the “they did it and they were fine”. That is willful ignorance and playing jeopardy with the quality of life of your hold for their entire life.

If the pedi approved it then I would stick with it 🤷🏻‍♀️ I would trust an MD more than a google degree. Then again it’s been a while since I had a baby that young. I’m way past that stage times 3.

@quincysmommmmy_, I sure will and have blocked others that post about nonsense.

This is what your post sounds like. “Hey does anyone know if it’s okay to give a baby cereal at 3months? My doctor said it was okay but instead I’m going to ask strangers on the internet about it.” 5 comments later all offering different advice/opinions on the matter. “You don’t know me or my life and you don’t know my baby so stfu and kiss my ass. I don’t need to read your articles nor do I care about your opinion! Stop telling me how to raise my baby!!!” 🙄

That’s not bashing

@laylasmom, so block me , this is 10 hrs old. You on the app too , since it’s flooded with so much stupidity 🤷🏽‍♀️

If you already know the answer to something and don’t want anyone else’s opinion on the matter then why bother asking about it on a public forum? God, this app is flooded with stupidity. You’re clearly asking for drama.

@hawkinsmommy2016, I second that! Be respectful of each other! 🙂

@jaskeana, she still commenting?

@laniejay oh damn I forgot to waste my time with you dr.knowitall your writing a book over some Gerber cereal do you have anything else to do today you should start your nutrition book

@fuhgeddaboudit, yea same for my baby also I just have some greedy kids n them regular bottles wasn’t hittin it okuuuuurrrrr lol just thought I add that to light the mood of this whole post but honestly my momma is old school and from the south n there was no textbook or read alongs on how to raise kids she went off experience and how she saw or helped raised her other siblings and everybody has lived full lives like everyone has said at this point everyone’s parenting skills is different no one person has all the answers

@fuhgeddaboudit, I totally agree with this. I’m all about medical intervention when necessary but if medication can be avoided why not try that route first?! We live in a world where people just want an easy fix and to medicate any problem instead of trying other things first. Hence the reason we have MRSA and a bunch of other things.

@fuhgeddaboudit, now as I see from for kids he’s 3 years old , healthy?

@quincysmommmmy_, YES!!!!!!!

Preach sister! I’ve gotten so much crap from know it all moms about this and when to start food, when to do this and that, etc...everyone parents different!

@tiera_shaye, because she did her own research it’s wrong , like I said each one teach their own. I dont care about how anyone rises their child or kids. But DO not say the way I’m up bringing mine is wrong cause YOU THINK it’s wrong

@laniejay, 😂 because it’s “not bashing” or “bullying” when you tell someone their opinion is wrong. And that their doctor whom spent almost a decade of their life getting their medical degree is wrong.

@laniejay, do you see the “ ? “ it was a question. I couldn’t care less if I was bashing or bullying. I do not care. I don’t take this app seriously. I’m grown.

@d.j112811, I’m fully versed in how to “@ people” I was making a general statement, not directing it at anyone. Although it was in support of @optimusprimesmom,

@quincysmommmmy_, show me where I said that.

@laniejay, are you saying I’m bashing ?

People really need to learn the definition of bullying/bashing

@optimusprimesmom, it pertained to EVERYONE not just you. I’m not a bully. I’m just not the one for the non sense. You not gonna tell me something that works for you won’t work for me. That’s simple. Not being a bully. But if I’m a bully 🤷🏽‍♀️ oh well.

@quincysmommmmy_ This is my last comment, so if you wasn't too have the last word proceed. Reread your post. "do not come on my post with , articles about whatever. I’ll tell you kiss my ass today." Not exactly kind words.

@optimusprimesmom, I bullied you ? Are you serious ?

@d.j112811 I left two general comments on the original post. No lectures. Just info. I am wife and mom to two people who have medical conditions they have to live with their whole lives because of circumstances out of anyone's control. My son spent 2 years bouncing between 7 different types of doctors, and we just had a scare that ended in an ER visit yesterday. Forgive me for getting upset when someone tried to bully me for trying to help someone who does have control over a situation that could potentially end badly.

I’m all for people listening to their doctors advice. BUT just because one doctor says it’s okay for one baby’s situation does not mean it is okay for another baby who has not been prescribed that by their doctor. There are cases where it is best, but generally, no, do not add anything to the bottle. In your case it’s fine, no one else’s opinion matters, but no one should follow unless they are specially told to do so.

@the.real.og, that’s outdated advice as well. Meds are far better to treat reflux and the risks of cereal in a bottle are too high

@quincysmommmmy_, I def agree with u there’s also nothing wrong with a by the book parent if that’s all they kno i read and research for certain things as well but I’ve learned from experience n feedings these are things I feel as a mom I can make safe decision on myself especially if I feel like my baby is not being fulfilled from a regular bottle

@tiera_shaye, I love the way you put this. It’s a motherly thing simple

Willful ignorance = negligence.

Oatmeal = cereal

Giving someone the resources and some info is ok. Not shoving it down their throats to see things the way you do. And telling them they, their dr, and Wic is wrong. Like gtfo.

Yes I too have heard cereal can be empty calories. So I made the decision to do oatmeal cereal vs rice. Are you also going to tell me I was wrong for formula feeding my child because I wasn’t producing enough? We do what we feel is needed as parents to make sure our babies are fed and taken care of. So please don’t bash someone for opinions other than your own.

As for cereal in bottles, once again I did research and decided against it in the bottle and only did it off a spoon in small increments because I felt that was right for us.

Nothing is black and white. There are pros and cons for both sides and as a mother you have to decide what is best for you, your baby, and situation.

And that’s exactly how humanity goes in circles and never progresses. Know better, do better.

@laniejay, one last time. Each one , teach their own 🤗 your kids aren’t mine. & mine aren’t yours

Blind faith in doctors is extremely dangerous. I hope you mamas start researching things on your own.

@babymema30, it’s ridiculous. The book parents. If your kid is hungry & you giving 3,4 bottles in a sitting. But it’s not Custer feeding. What’s wrong with it ? Nothing

@jaskeana, yes please try to show me facts on feeding babies cereal in bottles. Credible sources. I will wait.

@quincysmommmmy_, no on infant nutrition. Part of being an amazing doctor is realizing that he doesn’t know everything. It is impossible to stay up to date in every aspect of the medical world. He went and researched what I told him and apologized. @jaskeana, trust me- with all I’ve been through, I should! And our medical team takes me seriously because they know I know my shit.

@jaskeana, HELLLO , she should have a doctorate , since she educating doctors.

@laniejay you have all the answers I was going to go into some facts about baby's but I'll hold my peace I don't have time today bye

@laniejay, please okay. You educated your doctor in what ? How to rise your child ? So why go to the doctor?

@laniejay well you should have your MD then since you did all the work without the degree

@jaskeana, because WIC is outdated as well.

@d.j112811 I was posting advice on the post she's referring to. I was just trying to give the OP information other helpful moms gave me in the past. I don't like being called a bully when I was legit trying to help someone.

@leowifey, I’m not deleting or blocking anything I’m replying to EVERYTHING. that’s your child. Let me handle mine how I handle mine. What works for you , wont work for others. & what works for others d

Won’t work for you.

@laniejay so why does wic provide it to babies then call them n let them know

I guarantee you I have spent more time researching and studying infant nutrition than your doctors and many pediatricians. Even my own. I educated him. It’s not a “feeling” it is fact.

@quincysmommmmy_, then your doctor is willfully ignorant and not following the advice set forth by his peers and superiors of the AAP and WHO.

@quincysmommmmy_, I understand wat u saying being a mom is an everyday experience so nobody’s way of doing things is wrong if they feel it works for them or if someone asks for advice don’t crucify for askin

@jaskeana, believe me I know that. I wonder if other people know that

@jaskeana, cereal is empty calories that they can’t even process and absorb so you fill their bellies with garbage and they miss out on nutrients that they actually needs.

@laniejay, if my doctor says I could sprinkle some cereal in his bottle to make him fuller , faster. Then I’m doing what’s best for my child. Just like you feel it’s “ unsafe “ other people also have testimonies about how cereal worked for them. EACH ONE TEACH THEIR OWN.

If you ask a question, why are you complaining about getting responses? Wouldn't you want to know if you are doing something wrong or dangerous for your child? Or is your ego and pride more important?

This will probably be deleted and blocked because it's a different point of view, but idc.

@quincysmommmmy_ some Babs don't get full off just milk as well that's why the cereal helps them ppl on here are something else all babies are different some get hungry and the milk is not enough

@optimusprimesmom, you’re still talking too me after I asked you not too , we both doing something we not supposed to be going. We’re even 😘

If something is unsafe, I will speak up. I have no qualms standing up for a child’s safety and well being. If more people did, perhaps this world would be a better place for our kids. Scientific facts outweigh someone’s opinions and feelings. Being a good parent is about staying up to date on the latest medical information, not playing the “they did it and they were fine”. That is willful ignorance and playing jeopardy with the quality of life of your hold for their entire life.

So you're getting worked up about something that isn't even happening to you, but telling others to mind their business? K. Lol.

No matter what there are good arguments for both sides. Just like many other things in life. Being a parent is making what you feel is the best decision for your child. I struggled with this as well because my daughter was sooooooo hungry and bottles were not doing the job. Hell. She had a few bites of cereal off a spoon around 2.5 months and loved it. So we did it when she seemed to be constantly eating. This turned into baby food by 4 months and she is now 11 months on table food and minimal bottles. Each kid grows at their own pace. Do what you feel is best and don’t let people tell you otherwise.

@hawkinsmommy2016, exactly. What works for you , doesn’t always work for next person. What works for them will not work for you.

@jaskeana, right I’m 20 & my brother is 10 ! Perfectly healthy.

@optimusprimesmom, not on my post , Please go about your day now.

@babymema30, it’s not even about me , I just hate when something that didn’t work for THEM & someone ELSE ask about it , they go off when they ask for RECOMMENDATIONS.

And people felt like posting articles. Also simple. If you don't want feedback, turn off comments.

@optimusprimesmom, because I felt like it , it’s real simple

If you're going to do it anyway, why bother posting about it?

Girl I gave my baby ceral earlier than that and she's a healthy 8 year old my granny suggested it she had 7 of her own do what you want

I hear that I def started giving my kids a lil cereal in there bottles wen they was btwn like 3 and 4 mos and there was no problems...girl ur doing fine take care your kids how u want and to the need of what they need...sometimes people just need to have an opinion even when it’s not asked for!!!