Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I posted the day before yesterday about my friend.. & well....... her fiancé came over, AND she came alone 😐 we eat sit around and after awhile my husband takes him to the back & the next thing I know he’s coming in the house with a weird look on his face, asking her if there was something he should know, I instantly gets up just in case someone turns into a maniac....... well long story short he cried & told her how disloyal she is & how disappointed he was.. she’s crying asking me why would I do that.. I’m like 🤷🏽 ♀ it wasn’t right........ Our other friends are saying that he’s giving her a hard time and that he sleeping on the couch, not eating her food and won’t talk to her.. she’s not talking to me (of course) & I now feel like we could have handled it in a different manner ... idk seeing a grown man cry like he did was just heart breaking!
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
You know what's upsetting? I was trying something different (sexually) and it was the most fun I had with my hubby in the 3yrs of marriage...last night I wanted to do it again and he said we would...he said no...I was so upset! I cried, slept on my daughter's bedroom floor for a bit then went back to bed and cried myself to sleep....got my hopes up for nothing! 😔😭
Melinda Parker·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I am sorry. It is tough, but dependinf on the service. he gets a week to two weeks leave, to come home for r and r if it's a year deployment. Also he may be able yo get shipped back when you give birth. When my unit and husband deployed, and I was left at the unit in the rear detachment. A couple men came home to see their babies born, but we was both army. Best advice I can give as a former soldier, and a military wife is to find some friends military or not and keep yourself busy.
Nicole·
He will only be gone for 2 months cuz the army is being stupid but I still miss him like crazy, I'm 7 weeks tomorrow so we will find out the gender when he gets home
Nicole·
@soon_2_be_mom_of_4,
Melinda Parker·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
LOL. Those words are always the truth, "the army being stupid. Even being a former soldier, it kills me when he does his drill for two days. I can only imagine two months. That is so cute thou, at least yall get to find out the gender together.
Nicole·
We are gonna have the doc give my mom the paper saying the gender and we are gonna do a gender reveal photoshoot since my mom is a photographer
Nicole·
@soon_2_be_mom_of_4,
Melinda Parker·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
That is so adorable. You're lucky having a mom as a photographer.
Nicole·
@soon_2_be_mom_of_4, no she drives me nuts and she won't let me do anything I want she is even forcing us to throw a wedding when we don't have the money and we would just prefer to go to the court house :/
Melinda Parker·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
ah I see. Well in that case, I am sorry. Donyoy guys live with her?
Nicole·
No we get our place after he comes back from deployment @soon_2_be_mom_of_4
Melinda Parker·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
That will make it easier.
hdd·
I know how it is @pumpkinspice, my husband has been in Kuwait for 2 months now and still has 5 more left and he won't be able to hold our baby until he's 4 months old 😔
Nicole·
Luckily mine will be back around week 15 so we can do a gender reveal @leightonscotj