As you know the last two post weren't good. my child father got physical with me and I called the police and got a report. I have had to make the hardest decision to file charges. I really hope I am doing the right thing. my son was screaming and crying when his dad was yelling at Me and in that moment I knew me and him didn't need to be together anymore. and when he actually hit me it was a real opener that he was never really gonna change. even now. it's two days later and he asking when he can see his son. it's not happening. all the violence that happened in front of my son u actually think u can see him right now. dude u need anger management or something until he gets help I don't think it's safe for aiden or me to be around him. He has the nerve to blame. me. he said it's my fault that he hit me. how tho. all because I suggested u spend more time with aiden since u feel he doesn't like you and u got physical not the other way around so how is it my fault. I didn't ask for this crap! I just feel like it need to be on record that he's been violent in the event he tries to take my son from me it will be on record he violent. what kills me is he isn't sorry he thinks he has done nothing wrong. I have to do this and stay strong for my son I just have to.
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Well who will he blame next Aiden. See so no he needs help
he always blame me every time he got violent. it's always my fault for making him mad and why the outcome was what it was. never his fault but mine. @calebsmommy1121
They always blame someone else I've seen it before.
yea it started in the living room aiden was playing in the floor until his dad started yelling at me and he started screaming but Aiden being right there didn't stop him from continuing. he doesn't think he need help he said his problem is me I make him this way. how did I make u violent tho I don't get it. @calebsmommy1121
thank you. it's crazy because he was in my face pointing his finGer in my face and I said get your finger outta my face and continued to piss me off. he was provoking me like he wanted to fight. he waited til my mom left to start with me @unbecomingme
You're doing everything I would do and if he's violent no he can't see Aiden until he controls it or gets help. No excuse especially if the baby was there and sitting in the same room
I'm so sorry this is going on. Don't be afraid to call a domestic violence help line if you need someone to talk to. You definitely did the right thing. And I want you to remember that even if you had gotten in his face and told him to hit you, you would not have deserved it. You did not deserve to be hit, or abused and manipulated mentally and emotionally. Stay strong, momma.
one of my friends said the same thing. @calebsmommy1121