As you know the last two post weren't good. my child father got physical with me and I called the police and got a report. I have had to make the hardest decision to file charges. I really hope I am doing the right thing. my son was screaming and crying when his dad was yelling at Me and in that moment I knew me and him didn't need to be together anymore. and when he actually hit me it was a real opener that he was never really gonna change. even now. it's two days later and he asking when he can see his son. it's not happening. all the violence that happened in front of my son u actually think u can see him right now. dude u need anger management or something until he gets help I don't think it's safe for aiden or me to be around him. He has the nerve to blame. me. he said it's my fault that he hit me. how tho. all because I suggested u spend more time with aiden since u feel he doesn't like you and u got physical not the other way around so how is it my fault. I didn't ask for this crap! I just feel like it need to be on record that he's been violent in the event he tries to take my son from me it will be on record he violent. what kills me is he isn't sorry he thinks he has done nothing wrong. I have to do this and stay strong for my son I just have to.
Well who will he blame next Aiden. See so no he needs help
he always blame me every time he got violent. it's always my fault for making him mad and why the outcome was what it was. never his fault but mine. @calebsmommy1121
They always blame someone else I've seen it before.
yea it started in the living room aiden was playing in the floor until his dad started yelling at me and he started screaming but Aiden being right there didn't stop him from continuing. he doesn't think he need help he said his problem is me I make him this way. how did I make u violent tho I don't get it. @calebsmommy1121
thank you. it's crazy because he was in my face pointing his finGer in my face and I said get your finger outta my face and continued to piss me off. he was provoking me like he wanted to fight. he waited til my mom left to start with me @unbecomingme
You're doing everything I would do and if he's violent no he can't see Aiden until he controls it or gets help. No excuse especially if the baby was there and sitting in the same room
I'm so sorry this is going on. Don't be afraid to call a domestic violence help line if you need someone to talk to. You definitely did the right thing. And I want you to remember that even if you had gotten in his face and told him to hit you, you would not have deserved it. You did not deserve to be hit, or abused and manipulated mentally and emotionally. Stay strong, momma.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
need suggestions....
So at work we have a drink thief. Any time we put a drink in the fridge it disappears. I swear I know who it is. So far he's taken drinks from everyone that works in the office, we even put a sign to not take anything you didn't pay for and wrote our names on the drinks. The person I think is taking them works out of the office so we never get to see who is drinking them.
one of my friends said the same thing. @calebsmommy1121