So a while ago a friend of mine from middle school who's also had a child told me that I wasn't a real mom... In the…

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@valereleo, right! I'm sad also, that's how I always planned but it obviously wasn't written that way for me. I was in labor for 2 days! And same here. It's not easy having to deal with this cut. Mines opened up and grew a blood ball thing that burst. We are moms regardless ❤️

I'm sad I couldn't give birth vaginally and I wish people wouldnt make it worse like your friend is. My son was too big to deliver vaginally, we both would have died. I was in labor for 18 hours and terrified when they told me my only option was a c section because he just wasn't going to fit. His poor little head was coned too at first from my pushing. It's been a month and I am still sore. I still can't do too much physically. I don't believe I took the "easy way" at all. I'm just so thankful my son and I are both alive and well.

Exactly! 🙌🏽

exactly is wasnt are decision to have a c section it was the best thing to do for ourselves and our babies

Bullshit...c-section & all...we are ALLLLL moms!!

Thank you all ladies! We are mom! Regardless of how our babies entered this world!

Exactly. Whatever they say shouldn't matter. I had to learn that. Cause I love my son just as much as she does. I also experienced love at first sight when I saw my son just like she did.

My sister in law once said that based on her experiences with other women, the ones that gave birth vaginally tend to be helicopter moms, therefore better and more observant mothers, than those mothers who gave birth via cesarean. I wanted to slap her for making such an ignorant comment. Take what your "friend" said with a grain of salt and don't ever let ignorant comments like that get to you.

Omg how messed up! Especially that she had the nerve to say it to you while in the hospital. I swear, honestly it's not like we would have chose to have major surgery... It's what our body needed. We are! Mommies for life! Lol @meli2890

@oliviasmama1211,

right! that's why I felt sad when she told me that. I was like I had him tho! He came from me and his dad so yes I am a mom just like you are!

o my fucken god... i was told the same thing by my husband cousin we dont like each other and she had the nerve to come visit me while i was in the hospital and tell me that.. i almost lost my son due to my placenta abruption.. reason why i had a emergency c section.. 😡😡 doesn't matter how baby is born were mother's

Grrrr!!! Let me at her!! Lol. She has her nerve. We created and carried a life! That makes us all mommies! No matter how baby entered the world! The babies are here, safe and healthy! And that's all that should matter! ❤️❤️❤️😘

Though

I had a c section too. We are just as much mothers as anyone else. A lot milo her healing time for us thiughb

I know! I did. I was just so hurt. Thanks Hun. 😍

you are a mom. I'd go off on her.... how dare she!!!!!!!!!!!