what happens when you thought you had ypur fiance's full support for this pregnancy. and he comes home and tells you he is leaving..... he wants to be a part of our daughter's lige, but doesn't want to be attached to me anymore he wants to do this alone....... im so lost right now, I only work part time to take care of the house and our baby, and now i have to find a home for me and my soon to be newborn, with almoat no income.... i don't understand.... i am so lost and so scared. I love my fiance and my daughter, are they better off without me?
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Thats crazy. You have all rights to your baby. Just ask your family or first thing in the morning apply for emergency assistance. They can help you.
i know what you're going through. except i was only with my ex fiancé for three years. we found out we were expecting our daughter 8 months into our relationship and she'll be two in June. I'm also expecting our son in June as well. one day we were making wedding plans and talking colors and cake flavors and a place of our own (we lived with his sister in law, her husband and their two daughters) and the next day he was like i dont want to do this anymore. i love our kids but i dont want to be with you. i mean its so dumb, because I'm not even 21 yet so i have a whole lofe ahead of me to worry about and two other lives. i lost my job when i was in and out of the hospital in the beginning of my pregnancy and got expelled from school for needing additional time off and i didnt have anymore so i just had to quit going until financial aid kicked me out.
had to move my daughter and i into my parents house and we share a room with my 16 year old sister. its stressful and so frustrating but someday these kids are gonna look at the things we struggle through and thank us. all we can do is take each day as it comes and know everything will work out <3
I don't know how to even breathe right now...... He is my bestfriend, has been for most of my life. He is not making sense right now, he is always very logical, and I don't see why this is happening. I have done nothing but try to make our lives better and get ready for our daughter. I thought I was his support system, his rock....... I guess I was wrong. I can't even sleep, because when I close my eyes all I can see are memories of the last 10 years of my life....... I hate this, I hate that I let this happen, I just want it to be a horrible dream.
Of course your baby isn't better off without you. He is being stupid. Things will work out and I'll be praying for you! Hang in there honey!
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I'm so sorry to hear this. But just know you have this without or with him. I was going through a lot with my SO before that I was so scared of doing it alone but as soon as I seen my little girl born nothing else matter. You realize that everything will fall into place and the love you have for your baby overcomes all else. It's hard but your strong. If you need to talk I'm here ❣