what happens when you thought you had ypur fiance's full support for this pregnancy. and he comes home and tells you he is leaving..... he wants to be a part of our daughter's lige, but doesn't want to be attached to me anymore he wants to do this alone....... im so lost right now, I only work part time to take care of the house and our baby, and now i have to find a home for me and my soon to be newborn, with almoat no income.... i don't understand.... i am so lost and so scared. I love my fiance and my daughter, are they better off without me?
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Thats crazy. You have all rights to your baby. Just ask your family or first thing in the morning apply for emergency assistance. They can help you.
i know what you're going through. except i was only with my ex fiancé for three years. we found out we were expecting our daughter 8 months into our relationship and she'll be two in June. I'm also expecting our son in June as well. one day we were making wedding plans and talking colors and cake flavors and a place of our own (we lived with his sister in law, her husband and their two daughters) and the next day he was like i dont want to do this anymore. i love our kids but i dont want to be with you. i mean its so dumb, because I'm not even 21 yet so i have a whole lofe ahead of me to worry about and two other lives. i lost my job when i was in and out of the hospital in the beginning of my pregnancy and got expelled from school for needing additional time off and i didnt have anymore so i just had to quit going until financial aid kicked me out.
had to move my daughter and i into my parents house and we share a room with my 16 year old sister. its stressful and so frustrating but someday these kids are gonna look at the things we struggle through and thank us. all we can do is take each day as it comes and know everything will work out <3
I don't know how to even breathe right now...... He is my bestfriend, has been for most of my life. He is not making sense right now, he is always very logical, and I don't see why this is happening. I have done nothing but try to make our lives better and get ready for our daughter. I thought I was his support system, his rock....... I guess I was wrong. I can't even sleep, because when I close my eyes all I can see are memories of the last 10 years of my life....... I hate this, I hate that I let this happen, I just want it to be a horrible dream.
Of course your baby isn't better off without you. He is being stupid. Things will work out and I'll be praying for you! Hang in there honey!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Anyone NOT want their hubby's/SO to stay at the hospital with you during your stay? I know it sounds harsh, but my husband stayed at the hospital during my stay when I had our son and he drove me crazy bc all he did was complain. Now he tells me (2 days before my csection) that he's going to stay and I don't want him to.
I'm so sorry to hear this. But just know you have this without or with him. I was going through a lot with my SO before that I was so scared of doing it alone but as soon as I seen my little girl born nothing else matter. You realize that everything will fall into place and the love you have for your baby overcomes all else. It's hard but your strong. If you need to talk I'm here ❣