Anyone NOT want their hubby's/SO to stay at the hospital with you during your stay? I know it sounds…
Anyone NOT want their hubby's/SO to stay at the hospital with you during your stay? I know it sounds harsh, but my husband stayed at the hospital during my stay when I had our son and he drove me crazy bc all he did was complain. Now he tells me (2 days before my csection) that he's going to stay and I don't want him to.
cierra·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
With my first my mom stayed with me I was 16 with my second her dad didn't really stay he was in and out and with this one my finance is staying the whole time because we have to go over an hour away
Robyn··
That's understandable. We live literally less than 10 minutes from the hospital. My mom is coming down tmrw night to stay with the kids and to take my youngest to school and pick him up in the afternoon.
Icebergahead·
Мама дочки (7 лет)
Yipe. Maybe ask him to keep things to himself.
Icebergahead··
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@soon2bmommyof4, but I am sure he wants to see the birth. I wonder if you guys can talk it out. Pick and choose his battles and enjoy a miracle. He sounds like he just likes to complain and less resolve things.
Robyn··
I'll be having a C-section first thing Wednesday morning so of course I want him there for her birth, but I'm talking about staying everyday/night til I'm released.
Icebergahead··
Мама дочки (7 лет)
@soon2bmommyof4, oh I see now. I guess that can be annoying.
Monique Murehead·
Мама троих детей
I was the opposite my husband wouldn't stay he maybe stay about 10 minutes before he left drove me crazy because all i wanted was him to stay and hold the baby while i hot to hold my other kids but his mom and dad always keep the kids from me unless my mom brought them to me.
Robyn··
I understand why he wants to stay, but honestly, I didn't get much sleep with our son bc all my husband did was complain about this or that. I plan on breastfeeding, so I know I won't get much sleep in between, but if he's there all night too, I really won't get much if any sleep.
Monique Murehead··
Мама троих детей
@soon2bmommyof4 i would tell him then no need to stress when baby is there and then ig he Start to complain tell him to leave and come back when he's not going to complain. That what i would do.
Victoria ·
Just say you want him to stay with the other kids. That’s what mine did.
Robyn··
My mom is coming down to take care of the kids, so I don't want her to feel like she came down for nothing other than to meet the baby. But I mean, if he would stay during the day and just go home at night, I'd be happy.
cierra·
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего
I could see him staying during the day and then sleeping at home since it so close so you can get your rest
Robyn··
That's what I want. For him to go home at night.
Zaka·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
I only want mine to be there before during and right after c-section, once they take me to my room i want him gone! 😆. He was whining a lot 🤣. I need time to recover instead i had to find ways to entertain him, make his couch comfortable, he was hungry and annoying at times so I’m not risking my nerves again. He’s going home with kids!!!
Robyn··
I don't mind him staying during the day, but I want to recover without hearing the complaints, ya know?
Courtney Z·
Hahaha I tried this because my husband was a complainer, a snorer, and literally NO help in the hospital (since nothing can wake him up). He stayed anyway. But I told him flat out if he complained or stressed me out I would have him removed. He is dramatic when hes impatient and it embarrasses the heck outta me sometimes. But I am on your side with this, one baby in the hospital at a time please. Hahaga
Robyn··
Yeesssss!!! You totally get it! Thank you!
Sabi ·
If I get pregnant again I don’t want my Bf to stay either, for the same reason as yours. He wouldn’t stfu with the complaining and didn’t shower 🤢 with my daughter he wasn’t too bad tho. With my first my ex stayed the whole time and never complained. I’d just say I want you at home with the other kids and not with whoever would have watched them.
Robyn··
My mom is driving from out of state to come stay with the kids, make dinners, take our son to and from school and to meet the baby. I really don't mind if he's there during the day with me, but I want time without him complaining at night.
mrs.Jay__x·
Мама троих детей
I would just tell him "babe thanks for keeping me company n helping out etc.. you should go home n sleep since I want you to be comfortable n relaxed for the next day" something like that lol if he keeps insisting to stay I'd just tell him no pls I'll feel bad if you're here n if he STILL wants to stay ill just tell him gtfo I need my sleep 😂
Robyn··
Haha. Plus he has off Wednesday, obviously, foe my csection and all, but he works Thursday. If he don't get enough sleep, I'll be the one to hear about it. He's such a bear when he don't get enough sleep, then he complains about not getting enough sleep.
Becca McGlocklin·
Мама троих детей
I had to stay 4 days each time and my boyfriend would leave at night and come back around 1 and stay till about 10 or 11 so I could take a shower relax eat and nap. Then he would go home for the night and sleep there. It actually worked out good for both of us. We were both relaxed and well balanced for my kids.
Robyn··
With our son, I had him Monday and I was home by Wednesday. Hoping I'll be home by Friday since I'm having her on Wednesday. He has off work Wednesday, but works Thursday and maybe Friday. I just want some relaxation time without any complaining (I have 2 teenagers and an almost 5 yr old so I hear a lot of complaining at home). Just wish he understood why I'd rather him come home at night and just come up after work or whenever.