Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
What would you do? I feel so stupidly selfish if I choose to be induced because I want my boy to come when he is ready, but I am also feeling selfish stressing him out because everything going on and how stressed I am. So do I continue to stress him out or do I get induced and deal with this and let him be? Or will he be okay? I've been up all night contracting on and off but could it be from my nerves?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
natasha chacon·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)
me hubby works all the way till 6 in the morning 😭
natasha chacon·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)
and my hubby has been the same way I just miss him he's so grumpy and mean we fight slot now
Marlaena Lowe·
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@naty199613, mine works 11-7 and then he sleeps all day and gets so upset with me when I get upset over it and it's so hard I feel like this horrible stress on him 😭😭
natasha chacon·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)
@rockysmommy, mines been doing the same and if I tell him he's acting mean he says I'm the one that's hormonal
Marlaena Lowe·
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@naty199613, omg mine too! He told me he can't take me being so emotional and I told him I can't help it really and he said I need to but it's so hard when it's nothing like it used to be 😭 I love him so much nothing will get rid of that but it's so hard...
sarah runyan·
my husband leaves the house at 6pm and doesnt get home until 630 am..im blessed that he has a job and works 4 12 hr days..but its very hard to be here by myself every day and night..now he has to work every other friday until the end of june..so really the only time i get with him is on mondays before he has to go to work..hes always tired and doesn't want to do anything..i go to my sisters every other friday to get out..is their anywhere you can go to get away..
Erica·
Мама дочки-младенца
@rockysmommy, my boyfriend works 7pm to 7am and he's the same way. Our LO is 2w3d old n it's been going ok but the days n nights are all a blur to me since I'm doing everything at home.
Marlaena Lowe·
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@miraclebaby2016, not really 😒😒 my mom always makes excuses to why I can't come over and I don't have friends I'd want to stay with.. I barely talk to anyone..
Marlaena Lowe·
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@niki664, thank you and I do try not to smother him it's just so hard haha.. But I try to explain how I feel and I just start crying because he's hardheaded and stubborn 😔
Marlaena Lowe·
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@rickimi, me too. It's hard for me my baby isn't here yet but I have college Monday thru Thursday and I just want to stay up and talk to him all night and sleep all day with him but I can't do that or I'll be tired..
sarah runyan·
well if you need to talk to someone you can always message me..
Erica·
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@rockysmommy, hopefully things get into a swing for you! I remember I was 30 weeks along n all my boyfriend did was play video games n I got pissed! I told him that, that's not going to happen everynight.... He thought I was joking but he eventually got the clue and now that she is here he's playing games less.
Katerina Brown·
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My hubby was on a 12 hour swing shift nights. we had the tv in the bedroom and He would play his games offline with me laying in his arms until i fell asleep. than he would go out to the living room and play online or whatever. sometimes we would play together and i liked that too. when he would come to bed I'd be getting up and I'd play with his hair and rub his back until i fell asleep. It was kind of hard during the day since we lived in a town where we had no close family and not many friends. but i kept my self busy. you just need to find your pattern/routine. It took us about 6 months to get it down where we both got to be with each other without fighting. don't worry you'll get it.
Rochelle ·
Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)
My boyfriend works 2pm-12:30am sometimes he doesn't get home until 3am. He works in a lumber yard. In the beginning it was more difficult because I felt like I had separation anxiety. But I just learned to think of it as I know he would rather be home with us but he's working his ass off to support our family so in a way it was selfish to make him feel bad for being gone all day and night. We cherish weekends and he wakes up in the morning with me sometimes to get our oldest ready for school. Appreciate your man if he works his ass off 😊
Marlaena Lowe·
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@katt18, @miraclebaby2016 @rickimi thank you hopefully we get into that swing soon. It'll be so much easier.
Marlaena Lowe·
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@rochelleyayy, I don't make him feel bad I just feel bad because I want to cling to him all the time and I know that's gotta annoy him and I cry a lot because it's hard right now.. I know he's doing it because it's our only option and we need the money. He's my rock, I just feel like I bring more stress to him...