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Marlaena Lowe
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Mommies that have a husband who works nights, how do you do it..? I keep crying because now that…

Mommies that have a husband who works nights, how do you do it..? I keep crying because now that Brandon's on nights, he sleeps most the time and then plays games the rest of the time because it's his favorite thing to do which didn't use to bother me but now I just want him to cuddle me whenever we get the chance.. He always acts like I stress him out and I don't mean to but I guess I do if he is saying I do... I just don't know what to do. I love him so much and this night audit crap is putting us under a lot of stress and making us argue more 😭😭

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naty199613

natasha chacon

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)

me hubby works all the way till 6 in the morning 😭

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naty199613

natasha chacon

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)

and my hubby has been the same way I just miss him he's so grumpy and mean we fight slot now

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@naty199613, mine works 11-7 and then he sleeps all day and gets so upset with me when I get upset over it and it's so hard I feel like this horrible stress on him 😭😭

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naty199613

natasha chacon

Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (13 нед.)

@rockysmommy, mines been doing the same and if I tell him he's acting mean he says I'm the one that's hormonal

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@naty199613, omg mine too! He told me he can't take me being so emotional and I told him I can't help it really and he said I need to but it's so hard when it's nothing like it used to be 😭 I love him so much nothing will get rid of that but it's so hard...

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miraclebaby2016

sarah runyan

my husband leaves the house at 6pm and doesnt get home until 630 am..im blessed that he has a job and works 4 12 hr days..but its very hard to be here by myself every day and night..now he has to work every other friday until the end of june..so really the only time i get with him is on mondays before he has to go to work..hes always tired and doesn't want to do anything..i go to my sisters every other friday to get out..is their anywhere you can go to get away..

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rickimi

Erica

Мама дочки-младенца

@rockysmommy, my boyfriend works 7pm to 7am and he's the same way. Our LO is 2w3d old n it's been going ok but the days n nights are all a blur to me since I'm doing everything at home.

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@miraclebaby2016, not really 😒😒 my mom always makes excuses to why I can't come over and I don't have friends I'd want to stay with.. I barely talk to anyone..

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@niki664, thank you and I do try not to smother him it's just so hard haha.. But I try to explain how I feel and I just start crying because he's hardheaded and stubborn 😔

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@rickimi, me too. It's hard for me my baby isn't here yet but I have college Monday thru Thursday and I just want to stay up and talk to him all night and sleep all day with him but I can't do that or I'll be tired..

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miraclebaby2016

sarah runyan

well if you need to talk to someone you can always message me..

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rickimi

Erica

Мама дочки-младенца

@rockysmommy, hopefully things get into a swing for you! I remember I was 30 weeks along n all my boyfriend did was play video games n I got pissed! I told him that, that's not going to happen everynight.... He thought I was joking but he eventually got the clue and now that she is here he's playing games less.

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batmom16

Katerina Brown

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My hubby was on a 12 hour swing shift nights. we had the tv in the bedroom and He would play his games offline with me laying in his arms until i fell asleep. than he would go out to the living room and play online or whatever. sometimes we would play together and i liked that too. when he would come to bed I'd be getting up and I'd play with his hair and rub his back until i fell asleep. It was kind of hard during the day since we lived in a town where we had no close family and not many friends. but i kept my self busy. you just need to find your pattern/routine. It took us about 6 months to get it down where we both got to be with each other without fighting. don't worry you'll get it.

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mom0fboysx3

Rochelle

Мама сына (6 лет), беременна (35 нед.)

My boyfriend works 2pm-12:30am sometimes he doesn't get home until 3am. He works in a lumber yard. In the beginning it was more difficult because I felt like I had separation anxiety. But I just learned to think of it as I know he would rather be home with us but he's working his ass off to support our family so in a way it was selfish to make him feel bad for being gone all day and night. We cherish weekends and he wakes up in the morning with me sometimes to get our oldest ready for school. Appreciate your man if he works his ass off 😊

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@katt18, @miraclebaby2016 @rickimi thank you hopefully we get into that swing soon. It'll be so much easier.

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rockysmommy

Marlaena Lowe

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@rochelleyayy, I don't make him feel bad I just feel bad because I want to cling to him all the time and I know that's gotta annoy him and I cry a lot because it's hard right now.. I know he's doing it because it's our only option and we need the money. He's my rock, I just feel like I bring more stress to him...

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