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I have an almost 2 year old. (His birthday is April 9th) I have a pretty major problem. He is so good, except he LOVES…

I have an almost 2 year old. (His birthday is April 9th)

I have a pretty major problem. He is so good, except he LOVES to hit! I get so embarrassed when I take him to the babysitter and hear that he is hitting or has been hitting. I don't want him to be that kid that no one wants to watch or play with because he constantly hits. I always take him to the side and hold his hands and tell him that hitting hurts and it's bad, but that doesn't seem to do anything.

Does any mommies have any solution to this problem? Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!

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rachaelosterhout

RachaelМама сына (1 год)

my ahtahme, unfortunately I can't leave him by himself or anything. I'm a single mom and have to work so that's definitely out of the question

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tahtahme

TahtahmeМама двоих (младенец)

You should read the book Positive Discipline

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tahtahme

TahtahmeМама двоих (младенец)

having him by himself is the only way I can think of. Having him not be with other kids until he learns, even if it takes a while

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2_fahrenwald_boys

Kenna FahrenwaldМама сына (6 лет)

Does he have a favorite toy or activity that you can take away when he's bad?

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valerie_jean

ValerieМама сына (1 год)

My mom used to hit me to show me hitting hurts and I learned. Same with hair pulling. She would pull my hair and I learned it hurts so I stopped.

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arijane316

pattaleeМама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

I know it sounds awful, but I was raised this way too. when my nephew started hitting, my sister started snaking him back in the same place he smacked her and told everyone who watched him to do the same. obviously not hard enough to hurt him or anything, just enough to make him think twice about hitting people.

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rachaelosterhout

RachaelМама сына (1 год)

@aleighasmommy1113, I don't want to spank him because that's, in a way, showing him it's okay to hit when we are angry and it's not okay

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aleighasmommy1113

morgan.Мама дочки-младенца

My parents always spanked then put me in time out.

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rachaelosterhout

RachaelМама сына (1 год)

Time out doesn't work with him. We tried that to begin with and nothing. 😩

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bmochop

valerieВ ожидании первенца

time out is all i could think of

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lilbabyboy16

MadisonВ ожидании первенца

whenever I would watch other people's kids and they would hit. I would take their hand and pet my cheek and tell them to be soft, and tell them hitting is naughty. and if he keeps doing it put him in time out

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