Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
let's talk about porn.! lol who's okay with their man watching it and who's not okay? I myself get mad at my man for watching it when I first caught him when I was 15weeks told him how I felt. & he said its not like I'm cheating on you. but ever since he hasn't done it. I know for a fact because we share a phone lol but i. wouldn't mind watching it with him like how we used to before I got pregnant it made sex fun lol but its still fun just more interesting. just by our self is a no go. lol
Marissa Roberts·
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yeah and he says now that he wouldn't care but I know he would @jessicahartze
missing197user·
just because I ask for sex all the time and rarely get it, and if my bf said he was going to the strip club, i would tell him its over, because if I were to go to a male strip club j wouldn't hear the end of it. men suck sometimes
missing197user·
haha, I would have said don't come home.
Marissa Roberts·
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I mean yeah but I'm also mad about the fact that I didn't know he wasn't going to a titty bar and he told me as he was coming home... the day before I told him I don't feel comfortable him going to watch other women dance or strip... and he could've texted and said something you know?
missing405user·
I feel like your more upset about the hamburger I'd say it's just pregnancy hormones.. I do the same thing haha! :)
Shelby·
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I would have been bummed about it but he better get you some cool for tomorrow
Beth Cotton 🐝·
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@marissa1208, I wouldn't be happy! He gets you pregnant and then goes out to watch other women. Don't stress to much but make sure he understands it's not happening again.
yyyyyyyyyyyy·
Hell nah, I wouldn't tolerate that.
Meghan ·
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@marissa1208, He should've respected your feelings and said no to going then. but being it was his brother that took him he may have been pushed into it a little. My husband has been one time and said he wouldn't go back unless I wanted to go which I definitely don't. So tell him how you feel and how it feels since he decided to stay out so late and even forgot your food. Going out is one thing but going there and staying until 3am when you have a pregnant woman at home is a totally different an unacceptable thing(to me anyways)
Marissa Roberts·
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I even told him early that I don't feel comfortable with him going to a titty bar or whatever... just makes me feel like I'm not good enough that he has to go watch someone strip and it kinda hurts @mamabee @mshort44
Meghan ·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года), ждёт третьего
@marissa1208, I'd be extremely pissed.
Beth Cotton 🐝·
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@marissa1208, yes! id be upset.