let's talk about porn.! lol who's okay with their man watching it and who's not okay? I myself get mad at my man for…

I don't have a problem with his watching it . It's not like he's cheating . Especially since I've gotten pregnant I don't really like to have to sex . But he doesn't watch it .

I don't like my husband watching it. We are married he should not want to see another women undressed or getting pleasured. It's not ok. If I am not good enough for him then we don't need to be together. Point blank simple. However I do understand that when he needs to take care of himself and I am not in the mood he may need a little help. So maybe TMI but we have made videos ourselves so he has those when he needs them lol.

hahaha @5nooooodles I agree with you 100%

I can't wait to get a new toy 😆😆😆😂😂😂

lol I've learn my man body pretty good. & he knows mine so good as well lol.

he has never let me down during sex he always thinks about my satisfaction before his lol 😂😜

But to the subject of porn. Yes please 😁

Couples have to be open and honest with what pleasures them. We know our own bodies and I don't expect my hubby to be a mind reader. You have to tell them what u like, how u like it and such. Same goes for them. Some men like it when u grab and pull on there b***s and some like it when u use a vibrator on the head. There are soooo many things to try and explore and when u open those doors u will learn and explore eachother. Granted if u r open minded it can be amazing and a whole adventure but u can not get upset when he opens up to u. U set boundaries with eachother and respect them. He has to learn ur body and likes so why not give him the same benefit? Know what i mean 😉. Ok. I think I've said too much lol. I can go on and on about this 😂😁

@5nooooodles,

wow that sounds like a awesome toy lol and with I love you on it

even better xD ha that's how I feel also I love gong to sex stores there so amazing. with all the different Items dont even know what to get haha 😂😂😂

I'm sure you are. but some girls like to spice things up.

I understand your pain and I'm sorry I but it hurt so bad. just don't get upset when he tells u what he wants. @jdrose

@shortiebs, 🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@ktwins188, lol been there with a broken toy! Hubby surprised me with a necklace that had a little vibrator in rose gold/silver engraved on it I love you baby. It's not our cheapest toy but def worth the $. We're like kids loose in a candy store when we go shopping for "toys" lol

I thought I was doing some good stuff lol i need to find out what has been invented because I have been left in the dark and usually I haven't had sex bc of the pelvic pain I have been getting

@shortiebs,

yes I can agree with you on that! that why I don't let it get to me

@whitney aw man I'm sorry for your pain 10weks bed rest that's hard man.

I don't think my husband watches porn but I wouldn't really be mad if he did. There was a time when I was on pelvic rest for 10 weeks... I felt bad for him and I really wouldn't mind if he did. Men get sexually frustrated too and in my opinion It's not like he has any feelings connected to it besides trying to get off lol but as far as I know he doesn't do it.

@5nooooodles, haha oh man nicee lol . I def need to get some toys lol we had one but it broke hahaha 😁😂😂 but I so agree with you girl.

Porn is visual stimulation. Chances are our BF, husbands or SO have been masturbating since they hit puberty. Porn is not real. Its a movie. He will never meet these women. He will never sleep with them or touch them. Its hard to disconnect porn from your sex life but one is reality and one is fantasy. Watching porn sends different stimuli to the brain than actually having sex. Everyone has the right to choose what to do in their relationship but A LOT of women make a personal connection to porn when thats not accurate

awww 😣

if you feel like your lacking something try spicing up the sex life

won't hurt to try something new here and there @jdrose

@ktwins188, I agree it def spices up our sex life and I have no complaints in that dept. We watch it together and it even gives ideas of things to try and such. It's exciting. We have our own toy box of all kinds of things that we use on eachother and each our own. I'd rather be open and know eachothers likes and dislikes and be in it with him. A man likes a lady in the streets and a freak in the bed 😉 lol. Well my opinion.

@ktwins188, I know a lot of married couples who wives have sliced their behinds too lol just kidding 😆😒 or am.....he said it's just a habit and he didn't know I would be mad and I'm like that make me feels like I'm lacking something

@graciesmom,

ash (: well I'm glad .

me personal I love sex with my hubby its always so amazing when ever he wants it im like yesss when ever I want it hes like yessss. lol but we only have sex twice a week its getting hard with my big belly 😢😢 haha

My boyfriend does it and I wouldn't say we've gotten in a fight about it, but it's more me yelling at him. It's not the actual act of watching porn, it's the gross things he types into the search bar that piss me off because I know I can't be those things for him. I think "men will be men" is a cop out. Sure, our country SHOOT our world has become overtly sexualized to a point that a woman cannot keep up. We are expected to be porn stars and when we aren't men get disappointed.

I think porn is a better option than the man going and getting it from another person. If he needs it to get off on his own so be it. As long as he isn't physically with anyone else. The only thing that bothers me is when he tells me he fantasizes about people we know. That makes me nervous cause now I know he is sexually attracted to our friends and can get off thinking about them.

He's never really been the type to watch porn, and we have other options, I give him head and there's another entrance for him to use 😛 I'll do what I can for him and he knows that. He knows I'll be suffering too, it won't just be him and he's not a selfish guy. We'll make it work 😊

@jdrose,

awwh. I know it hurts but men will be men

I know a lot of married men that watch porn

and still have a happy marriage its normal

@graciesmom, I understand what your saying everyone has there own opinion on it. but what if you cant have sex at all for weeks

he will bound to do it without you knowing all men do it. even married lol

I asked him when I saw this post and I'm upset

@littlemissemma6915,

@bria.k @5nooooodles

Not okay. We're married, maybe if we were dating. Not okay with him watching other women getting f***ed. To me it's disrespectful. Some people don't mind, and that's cool. It's just way off limits for me 😕

I like to spice up the sex life here and there 😂😉😉😃

I'm glad most of you ladies see it not as a bad thing.

it's seriously is not cheating . cheating is him actually doing it with the female in front of him

@josiahsmommy219,

wow its funny he lies when u have the evidence but you should try watching it with him

spice up the sex life 😉😉

@mommyof10627

@michelledesfosses

yesss I agree with you ladies. I rather have him watch it than wanting to look at other ladies.

@jesskay1126

its seriously not cheating its more of a respect thing but yes I men will do it.

I think it be way worst your man actually looking for another women to talk to

than a women he will never met in his life.

I'm fine with it. When I don't feel good for a week straight and won't have sex with him what else is he gonna do? I'm not gonna be jealous of some female on a screen. I'm secure enough in my relationship.

I consider it cheating. If I ever catch my man getting off to another woman that's NOT me , I will leave him!!!!!

I get the insecure part @jesskay1126 for sure! Being prego I don't feel as good as before. I talked to him about it and he's done a really good job at making sure I still feel attractive. I don't really care so much about him watching it as long as it doesn't interfere w our sex life.

I don't mind my hubby watching it and sometimes we watch it together. It's no big deal to me.

It's a natural thing honestly, i rather my man watch porn than go look for another woman. It's all about picking your battles

I consider it cheating, I personally do not like him watching it and fantasizing about another woman. I get extremely mad, and I've told him I don't like it. so now it's kind of a respect thing. however my family members such as my mom and my aunt said I need to just get over it and that all men do it. it's hard though cause it kinda makes me feel insecure.

I Don't Mind My Man Watching It Without Me Because I Rather Him Do That Than Anything Else But Majority of The Time Anyway We Watch It Together

Lol omg I just caught mines watching porn again the other day and what made me even madder was he lied to me while evidence was in my face. I find it funny now. But he said the same thing about not cheating. I mean Idk I do get mad when he do watch it