RANT TIME: My husband and I were shopping on Walmart and this girl with toooo much makeup and skin tight clothes walks past, and he looks back and says "damn she's fine as f*ck"... and he ALWAYS does it, when he knows it upsets me. 😭😢 He NEVER says anything like that to me, EVER... he calls me fat and ugly... but never Beautiful, gorgeous, cute, or even Fine as F*ck... The only time he will ever pay attention to me is if he wants sex... I love him with all of my heart, but I dont know what to do... I honestly can't stop crying, and I just want to run away and hide forever!💔💔😢😭😢😭
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I agree with these ladies!! This is 100% not okay. If he thinks it's okay to do that in front of you I could only imagine what he does when you aren't around. I know it's hard with nowhere to go I was in that same situation. I'd be letting him have it. Silent treatment avoid him anything to get the point across. He knows what he's doing is wrong. He's just trying to make you feel bad about it so you stop bringing it up. You just gotta show him it's not acceptable and you aren't going to put up with it. You just have to Be confident in yourself and ignore his ignorant remarks no matter how hard it is and trust me I know it's hard :( good luck girl. @mrs.steele
You need to leave him. It will only get worse as it goes on. there are good men in the world that will always make you feel beautiful and secure.
leave his ass. men don't change when it comes to shit like that. you deserve so much more.
I have been in the same boat and it's in your best option to leave before it gets worse. do you really want your child growing up thinking that it's okay to treat women like that especially the one you're married to?
That is verbal abuse. I am so sorry girly 💔
I'm sorry I just looked a your profile and you really say this is the man of your dreams.... sounds more like the man of your nightmares and I'm sorry to hear that you still have love for someone who treats you so badly. the only advice I can give is that you leave before you bring that baby around such a toxic environment.
I'm sorry if I seem harsh or mean but I'm just speaking with 100 % honesty here
I just tried talking to him and I starting crying and he told me to just f*cking leave already... but I honestly have no place to go.. 😢😢😢
no man should make you feel unbeautiful....when my hubby and I had issues our 2nd yr of marriage with him talking to other girls online we went to counseling and it really helped us.
if he does that in front on u i can't imagine ...if you're not around ...u don't need that kind of person around u.. leave him
@mrs.steele really sounds like he is the man whore how dare him talk to u that way u need to get your man in check or move on
men never " talk it out" they think we just over react when we just want to talk they say we make a big deal out of it some guys need a real brain 😐
@mrs.steele than he doesnt love u n let him leave you n your child deserve better
@goodbyelullaby, yes the same with me...
@mluvs7, he would leave me if I tried to do anything like that... and @genevievexxooxxoo he would call me a slut and a whore if I did that.
I don't think I'd be getting advice from girls online if I were you. I think that sounds like you need a professional marriage counselor to help resolve your issues and develop healthy boundaries in your relationship. You need to be able to openly express your emotions and feeling in a marriage. No one should be spoken to that way.
what a ass id smack my husband you have to train n demand respect , respect n love yourself first ! Ask him if he would like that done to him make him feel like a dog . My husband would straight look on the ground to not piss me off cause he knows ill say something smart ass. you got this girl your beautiful n when you see it n show it and are confident he wont be able to help himself n look at you ever sec.😍Good luck gf💁
Next time a hot guy walks by point it out.
sounds like the shit my husband does. he's allowed to say women are beautiful but if I say a man is handsome I'm cheating. Not fair.
@mommystickland, every time I do try and talk to him he always tells me to shut up and get over myself
i have tried... but it just never happens...
sounds like you may need to have a talk with your husband. not an argument. a talk. it'll feel good to get those things off your chest. maybe he doesn't realize what he's doing and how it upsets you.
I'd drop him . You deserve better than someone who calls you ugly n looks at other women.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Things I never thought I'd say...
Until I became a mom:
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Enjoying some fun in the sun ☀️
Don’t come for me about him not wearing a life jacket. I don’t want to hear it. He was fine 🙄
GAME TIME
never have I ever..
He's a piece of shit. he's never gonna change. I'd leave him and just take care of myself and my child until a man who knows how to be a man and will treat you like you deserve comes along and treats you like the queen you are. my husband's mom was treated like that (and worse) and it took her 22 years to leave him. she's happier now. and safe.