RANT TIME: My husband and I were shopping on Walmart and this girl with toooo much makeup and skin tight clothes walks…

I'd drop him . You deserve better than someone who calls you ugly n looks at other women.

sounds like you may need to have a talk with your husband. not an argument. a talk. it'll feel good to get those things off your chest. maybe he doesn't realize what he's doing and how it upsets you.

i have tried... but it just never happens...

I would definitely get rid of him so damn disrespectful

my husband first reaction would've be eww

@mommystickland, every time I do try and talk to him he always tells me to shut up and get over myself

sounds like the shit my husband does. he's allowed to say women are beautiful but if I say a man is handsome I'm cheating. Not fair.

Next time a hot guy walks by point it out.

what a ass id smack my husband you have to train n demand respect , respect n love yourself first ! Ask him if he would like that done to him make him feel like a dog . My husband would straight look on the ground to not piss me off cause he knows ill say something smart ass. you got this girl your beautiful n when you see it n show it and are confident he wont be able to help himself n look at you ever sec.😍Good luck gf💁

@mimiz, devorce is too expensive:(

I don't think I'd be getting advice from girls online if I were you. I think that sounds like you need a professional marriage counselor to help resolve your issues and develop healthy boundaries in your relationship. You need to be able to openly express your emotions and feeling in a marriage. No one should be spoken to that way.

@mluvs7, he would leave me if I tried to do anything like that... and @genevievexxooxxoo he would call me a slut and a whore if I did that.

@goodbyelullaby, yes the same with me...

@mrs.steele than he doesnt love u n let him leave you n your child deserve better

men never " talk it out" they think we just over react when we just want to talk they say we make a big deal out of it some guys need a real brain 😐

@mrs.steele really sounds like he is the man whore how dare him talk to u that way u need to get your man in check or move on

if he does that in front on u i can't imagine ...if you're not around ...u don't need that kind of person around u.. leave him

no man should make you feel unbeautiful....when my hubby and I had issues our 2nd yr of marriage with him talking to other girls online we went to counseling and it really helped us.

WTF is wrong with him?!

I just tried talking to him and I starting crying and he told me to just f*cking leave already... but I honestly have no place to go.. 😢😢😢

I'm sorry I just looked a your profile and you really say this is the man of your dreams.... sounds more like the man of your nightmares and I'm sorry to hear that you still have love for someone who treats you so badly. the only advice I can give is that you leave before you bring that baby around such a toxic environment.

I'm sorry if I seem harsh or mean but I'm just speaking with 100 % honesty here

That is verbal abuse. I am so sorry girly 💔

I have been in the same boat and it's in your best option to leave before it gets worse. do you really want your child growing up thinking that it's okay to treat women like that especially the one you're married to?

leave his ass. men don't change when it comes to shit like that. you deserve so much more.

You need to leave him. It will only get worse as it goes on. there are good men in the world that will always make you feel beautiful and secure.

I agree with these ladies!! This is 100% not okay. If he thinks it's okay to do that in front of you I could only imagine what he does when you aren't around. I know it's hard with nowhere to go I was in that same situation. I'd be letting him have it. Silent treatment avoid him anything to get the point across. He knows what he's doing is wrong. He's just trying to make you feel bad about it so you stop bringing it up. You just gotta show him it's not acceptable and you aren't going to put up with it. You just have to Be confident in yourself and ignore his ignorant remarks no matter how hard it is and trust me I know it's hard :( good luck girl. @mrs.steele

He's a piece of shit. he's never gonna change. I'd leave him and just take care of myself and my child until a man who knows how to be a man and will treat you like you deserve comes along and treats you like the queen you are. my husband's mom was treated like that (and worse) and it took her 22 years to leave him. she's happier now. and safe.