Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Am I a bitch? My husband wanted to go to lunch with a girl who's a friend but her boyfriend wouldn't be there. I threw a fit and got upset and he didn't go, should I have let him?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Vanessa·
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let.him go maybe him seeing.you at the appt will change his feelings. but if he dnt wanna be with u just because he going.to appts and being.there dnt get him out of.child support.lol !
Emily·
does he want to be a part of the child's life after its born? or is he just wanting to go this appointment?
missing268user·
I would let him go, he's still the daddy girl
Macie 🤘🏻 Simon·
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I would personally. Even if it never works out between the two of you he obviously wants to be a part of his kids life and that's rare these days. Your child's lucky.
Bree·
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@mrsdoyle, he wants to be in the kids life
Emily·
I would let him go, but make sure he knows he needs to contribute to the child's life even beforehand. help pay for stuff and be there. I would be careful though, he may be doing it just to make sure you aren't moving on.
Bree·
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@mrsdoyle, that's another problem too..he doesn't wanna help financially at all..every single dollar I get from my taxes is going to pay for clothes and equipment and all the babies needs
Emily·
if he won't help out then he doesn't deserve to be in the child's life! if he won't act like a father then he isn't one. just being there isn't enough. babies require a lot of money as well. he needs to do both.
Mrs.RJ·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I would let him go but I would also put him on child support too. It's not about if you need the money or not but it is about him helping you take care of what he helped to bring into this world. Now if he can't pay but still wants to be in their life I would say let him. Kids know no value in money but they do know when a parent is absent or barely there or whatever. Don't stand between their relationship if he is willing to be there because of money. Yes it does take a lot to raise them but you don't want your child to grow up resenting you either. Now if he has the funds then let child support work everything out for you. Which is the easier way to go.
momhearts3·
I feel that whatever make you comfortable you should do. after the baby is born then I would allow him to see the baby and see if he steps up. but until then he isn't really supporting you and I would think of your feelings first and avoiding the stress.
Bria·
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Even if you're not his type it's still his child. I'd say let him go! If he causes drama you can cut him off but if he just wants to be there for his baby I don't see an issue. Your feelings towards/against him shouldn't affect the relationship he has with his kid.