Am I a bitch? My husband wanted to go to lunch with a girl who's a friend but her boyfriend wouldn't be there. I threw a…

depends on the type of relationship hey have. If you know they are really just friends and you trust him let him go. If you feel some type of way about it don't let him.

I don't know their relationship. I told him he could go after I calmed down but he's still here and not talking to me. :(

i say you did the right thing!

@mluvs7, thank you!

Not if you're uncomfortable with it. I agree with @mimi602 maybe you could ask to join? Tell him how you feel and try to explain the scenario but flipped. That always works with my husband. "Babe, I love you. Hear me out. How would you feel if I was meeting up with a male friend and it was just the two of us?" Usually with guys putting it into perspective by putting the shoe on the other foot is a huge help @faeluna

I freak out too lol.

@missliss, it was supposed to be all of us then he changed it to just the two of them and I flipped. @patti28, glad I am not alone.

He should have invited you to go too

@babymama2016, it was supposed to be that way and then he changed it.

@faeluna, oh yea that's not cool. I wouldn't be ok with that if it was my husband. We had a situation similar and it almost caused divorce. He's learned his lesson. I have a very low tolerance for that stuff. Have you met her?

Just because a girl has a boyfriend doesn't mean she's trustworthy

absolutely not

No your not!!

Sounds like we all agree with u lol

@missliss, I've never met her at no, and thank you all for agreeing with me. He just came in and apologized.

I know my boyfriend is a friendly ass person so I would have been pissed too, I don't think he would see it if someone was flirting with him..he'd probably just think they were being nice.😒 last night on his break he went and got a girl coworker some ice cream or something cause she asked him to cause she didn't get at break and I got pissed about that lol

@heatherann219, I would have gotten mad too lol

I was! Then my bf was giving me extra kisses and hugs before he went back to work..

@heatherann219, that's good lol

Nope

@yogabump, thank you!

Thank you ladies, I feel better now. :)

No that's not appropriate of him

@faeluna, ❤️

@missliss, <3

@halibug, thank you for agreeing with me.

fuck no.

@heatherann219, oh hell no!! my hubby is the same way and I'm like no dude. just. no. you're married. that's not ok.

@lakilucid, lol thank you!

as for op, why did he even went to be alone with this girl? I would be suspicious of that alone.

@lakilucid, she's in from Alaska and they are high school friends. I'm not sure why he wanted to be alone but I didn't let it happen.

good going mama! I would have flipped the fuck out on hubby for even mentioning it.

I don't give a rats ass where she's in from or who the heck she is. that's crossing a boundary especially if you're carrying his child.

@lakilucid, thank you hon. I did and now he has plans for Saturday with her and her boyfriend but I'm still not invited. Oh well I give up right now.

then I would tell him absolutely not

unless you are involved he's not going.

he's being a selfish asshole and needs to knock it off. you're carrying his child and he's acting like you can't meet this girl. seems fishy to me.

@lakilucid, I did and now he's not sure if he's going. Like I said I don't feel like fighting right now.

I'm sorry he's doing this hun. you don't need that stress.

@lakilucid, it's okay, he's normally really sweet. I'm just done fighting right now.