Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Zero sex life Me and my SO have absolutely no sex life anymore and it's really starting to get to me. I try and give him hints and still nothing. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore and it's really starting to upset me /: is anyone else having this problem?
Do you really think the way you are raised Has no impact on when and how you decide to have sex? I read a comment on another thread that really rubbed me the wrong way. Something about how teens have sex and there's just no stopping it no matter how you raise them.
So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒
3RD UPDATE: What would you do? Ok, so we have these new neighbors they have been there renting the house 2 doors down for about 3 months or so. They have a 2 year old boy, he just turned two. They have asked me to babysit him on multiple occasions, just so happens I've been busy each time. In my mind, they don't know me or anything about me. Barely know my name and they want me to watch their kid because they see I have kids and stay home. Apparently they haven't had any luck with the babysitters they have had. Well his sister just moved in and she had the little boy all morning. I get a text at 11 from the mom asking if I can come get the boy because the sister needs to leave to work on her car?.... I told her I would but was on my way to the store and would be back at 12 and would get him then. So I get back and the sister brings him over. He doesn't know me at all, but he is a very good little boy. I had no problems with him the whole time. So here is my question, I watched him from 12 to 530, the mom texted at 2 and asked how much I told her 10-15 just because I'm nice. If it was me in that situation on such short notice and someone saving my ass to watch my kid I would give them 15-20 if they said 10-15. So the dad picked him up and said the mom would pay when she got home. I just texted and asked her because she's been home since 6 (now it's 930) if she was bring over the money, I was super nice about it. She said her husband had to go to the bank, so he went and came back and then she texted me that it was on the front porch. They gave me $8. Like really? I just find this super weird. Would you be kinda thrown back by this also? I definitely learned my lesson and won't be "helping out" anymore. I just thought this was nuts.
Paige·
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I don't have that problem. My boyfriend always wanted sex but it's painful for me & im always uncomfortable. He always nagged me. But as I've gotten bigger he no longer asks or even seem interested. Tho I'm okay with no sex, I feel like I'm not attractive anymore. But all men watch porn whether you know it or not. Or whether you give them sex or not. I know my boyfriend watchs porn. He may be nervous about the baby. I know some men think they can hit the baby. You should talk to him about it.
tiffany·
a lot of times is more because of them being nervous about the fact that your pregnant. especially if it's your first he's probably freaked out more than it is anything else. they don't know or hormones.
Jesica·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
don't worry I used to Tripp big time when I seen that on my hubby's phone also, but it's because I work 42 hrs a week n still get home to take care of my other daughters and I get tired or have too much pressure down there so I go days without sex but I forget about how he feels. so a little peaking is ok lol as someone else stated as long as he not getting it from somewhere else I'm ok with it.
Savannah·
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okay good Haha, yeah men are very visual @dieeanaa
Diana·
Girl don't worry it's never tmi for me @vannahmama96 I'm actually happy to talk about this with other girls and yeah I totally agree but still makes me sad but I'll get over it eventually
Savannah·
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men watch porn whether you know it or not. my boyfriend does and I don't have a problem with it because I'd rather have him do that than do something with somebody else. I'm sure he still thinks your beautiful and wants you it's just men are weird sometimes. TMI but I can't even have sex anymore because I went into preterm labor and I'm on pelvic rest which sucks lol @dieeanaa
Diana·
Thanks lady's always helps to have someone's opinions @ahauge6 @mimiz @twowomenoneheart
Mimi·
Yep happens to a lot of us. He can be nervous about the baby i certainly don't think it's anything to do with attraction I'm sure my husband watches lots since we've had so many scares there would be days and days that pass and not even a hug I got really down depressed and desperate and talked to him noticed that after a while it didn't even matter and sex is pretty uncomfortable now so the more we wait I don't mind
The Rollins·
Мама сына (7 лет)
Don't be sad. It could be a number of things. The best thing to do is ask. Communication is the best thing in a relationship and understanding is the best thing in the world. Talk to him. He may be afraid of hurting the baby, some men are.