Hello lady's so I want to share a problem and would love for your opinions!
So me & my boyfriend don't really have sex anymore we do it like once a week and that's because I'm the one that makes moves I thought it was normal so I didn't pay much attention even though I was dying to have some sex you lady's understand how horny you can get while pregnant. I would try not to get upset over it because I thought maybe he was just tired from working but today I checked his phone and all he does is watch porn which made me really sad and depressed is it because he doesn't find me attractive anymore. Has this ever happened to any of you?
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a lot of times is more because of them being nervous about the fact that your pregnant. especially if it's your first he's probably freaked out more than it is anything else. they don't know or hormones.
don't worry I used to Tripp big time when I seen that on my hubby's phone also, but it's because I work 42 hrs a week n still get home to take care of my other daughters and I get tired or have too much pressure down there so I go days without sex but I forget about how he feels. so a little peaking is ok lol as someone else stated as long as he not getting it from somewhere else I'm ok with it.
okay good Haha, yeah men are very visual @dieeanaa
Girl don't worry it's never tmi for me @vannahmama96 I'm actually happy to talk about this with other girls and yeah I totally agree but still makes me sad but I'll get over it eventually
men watch porn whether you know it or not. my boyfriend does and I don't have a problem with it because I'd rather have him do that than do something with somebody else. I'm sure he still thinks your beautiful and wants you it's just men are weird sometimes. TMI but I can't even have sex anymore because I went into preterm labor and I'm on pelvic rest which sucks lol @dieeanaa
Thanks lady's always helps to have someone's opinions @ahauge6 @mimiz @twowomenoneheart
Yep happens to a lot of us. He can be nervous about the baby i certainly don't think it's anything to do with attraction I'm sure my husband watches lots since we've had so many scares there would be days and days that pass and not even a hug I got really down depressed and desperate and talked to him noticed that after a while it didn't even matter and sex is pretty uncomfortable now so the more we wait I don't mind
Don't be sad. It could be a number of things. The best thing to do is ask. Communication is the best thing in a relationship and understanding is the best thing in the world. Talk to him. He may be afraid of hurting the baby, some men are.
I don't have that problem. My boyfriend always wanted sex but it's painful for me & im always uncomfortable. He always nagged me. But as I've gotten bigger he no longer asks or even seem interested. Tho I'm okay with no sex, I feel like I'm not attractive anymore. But all men watch porn whether you know it or not. Or whether you give them sex or not. I know my boyfriend watchs porn. He may be nervous about the baby. I know some men think they can hit the baby. You should talk to him about it.