I don't think my boyfriend wants this baby. He never goes to the doc with me, never ask questions, and hasn't even rubbed my belly once. He says all the time this isn't my first baby. But, it's my first baby and so far I've been sick and alone all the time...Thinking about dumping him.
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hes probly just really nervous on the inside some guys act like that give him time he will come around
Yeah I understand what everyone is saying. But, he's just a grade A butt hole. I had to pay lots of bills last week, because I fell behind. I asked to borrow money for groceries. He said he was broke yet, went to the casino the same night. When I mentioned it he said it's not my responsibility to feed you. It's true yet he wanted to have this baby. I'm 33 and this will be my first... he's making this the worse experience possible so far. I asked him not to tell everyone I was pregnant, because I recently had two miscarriages... he told all of his family...I'm just having a hard time with him...and he was much better when I wasn't pregnant.
One thing with boys is they take alot longer to come around to the idea. My boyfriend was super excited then the last months he's been really distant and it literally felt like we were about to break up then I finally asked him what was wrong snd he said he's starting to get nervous the closer we get. He's better now though. He could just be scared and trying to not show it or he really might not be happy. Talk to him about it and see what he says, if he's still being like that then do what you think is best for you because I'll tell ya now stress isn't good with a baby at all. I hope everything gets better!
Not all men are mushy like that, especially if they have gone through it before. My man was like that, his first baby to. He only went to appointments where it was something serious, like my level 2 ultrasound, otherwise he never came, he never rubbed my belly, he didnt really talk about the baby or anything, hes just not that way, but when the baby came I could see thr joy and happiness in his face and he has been an amazing father
I wouldn't get too worked up about it. Through 3 pregnancies, my husband has been to two appointments - the ultrasounds of the first 2 (he was not able to get off work this time). He never spent a lot of time talking to and rubbing my belly during any of them, but he was still excited and loves our children more than anything.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
Any 1st time moms who had a c-section? My due date is Wednesday. At my Dr appt today, my Dr said I'm not dilated at all. My baby has been measuring big all along, and my Dr now estimates he is about 9.5lbs and doesn't think I can deliver him naturally... so she scheduled me for a c-section on Thursday. This is my 1st baby, and I really don't know how to feel about it all.
Better late than never...
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Baby boy R was born at 1:08am last Tuesday after about 5.5 hours of labor. He weighed 8lbs 12oz. My epidural wasn’t placed correctly the first time so it didn’t work at all. 😬 Before they could get the second one in, baby R decided it was time to come. Only two pushes and he was here! My husband was over the moon to announ...
I hope so...