I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
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Dang, this is a bit... concerning. Why not just take a girls weekend away and leave him with all your usual responsibilities so he can see what it’s like?
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Leave the house for hours and leave him with the boys on a weekend 😈😈
@mrsmord, oh really then he’s not the man for you then . Try it . 🤪🤪🤪🤪
My husband wouldn’t make it without me or his mom or his sisters because if I’m down he gets his mom or sisters to help with our son. 🙄
Yup!!!! This is how my ex was, said that he’d love to stay home and take care the kids all day and blah blah, and he’d always be like “your cleaning again” like bitch you want the house clean?!! 🤦🏼♀️ he didn’t help with shit either . But now I’m in my own place so he has to clean his house and do his laundry and make himself dinner 🤷🏼♀️
All my husband does around the house is take out the garbage, do his own laundry and make a mess everywhere for me to clean. Like right now his sink area in his bathroom is gross and covered with hair and tooth paste. I haven't cleaned it in weeks because I'm sick of doing it over and over again. I always think this to, if I had my own place it would be nice and clean and organized all the time and his place would just fall apart. Like how messy his place was when I first moved in. Oh but he would hire a maid lol
@ladyfreyja, yeah i was always picking up after him... still do when he comes here to have dinner with the boys, Sunday we went to his place and he cleaned his place! He was like your mopping and i was like hell no im not 🤣 especially cause he’s got his brother living with him nope .
I have thought that way at times . Or that I wouldn’t mind a hospital stay simply for the sleep😕 I feel like shit that I even think that sometimes .
This goes for all you other moms to don’t down yourself, y’all got this 😍
Don’t ever say things like that, be careful what you say out your mouth. No matter how you may feel or how things may seem always know that you are not alone , God is always there watching & protecting you . He’s our father and you can go to him day night raining hell snow whatever he’ll be there to listen ! Tell God how you feel and ask God to help your husband understand how you may feel it will work 😘
Awe that sucks that u feel an accident or something major would be the only way your dh can respect all u do in a day. I’m so fortunate that my dh isn’t like this at all. He sees me all the time rushing around. Going here and there cleaning this and that and he thanks me all the time. I’m sorry
Girl, I know how you feel. The way it works my house is we both work but I do all the cooking and the cleaning and the care for our daughter. He just left for work I'm leaving for work soon he'll come home and sit on the couch and pay attention to his phone while after I get home from work I have to cook and clean and do laundry get everybody ready for tomorrow. He pays the mortgage and all the bills I pay for everything else the cable my own phone we both pay for groceries Etc
That's all my husband does while he watches the kids while I cook it clean, play on his phone. Oh but he works all day
It doesn’t sound fucked up! I think about this allll the time! We even spoke about it today lol
My husband doesn’t realize how much I do all day either. Especially with my baby who is super clingy it’s so hard😩 they just don’t understand mama🤦♀️
I feel like this too sometimes. Especially when I feel like ive tackled alot of things for the day and he refuses to acknowledge it. Or says he can do it better. My SO knows he couldnt do anything without me though. They just take us for granted.
❤️ big hugs for you “your beautiful and loved by your children and many here “ it Shouldn’t take an Accident for your Husband to get the picture of being a husband not just a provider . It hurts my heart to hear you say this “”you should tell your husband this is what I need from you now not when you feel like showing emotions and feelings for you whether he is at work or home your feelings should be validated by him ! Some men don’t get it before it’s too late one day and you’ve had enough! I have been with man 17 yrs it takes both to make it work we each have a role in the relationship ,and some men need pushing and motivation and a wake up call you should always feel loved and appreciated
I do everything at home and we have 2 boys, ages 2 and 3. I do everything. My husband hasn't even changed a diaper. He works... Usually gets home about noon, and then does whatever he wants with the rest of his day. I'm not even exaggerating a little bit. He hasn't cooked, cleaned ANYTHING, done laundry, ect. Since 2008. BUT!!! He will be the first to admit that I do it all! He sings my praises and tells everyone that I have the hardest job in the world. He's let me know he wouldn't want to do what I do, for even a day. So if I were in your situation.... LET HIM TRY. Tell him to put his money where his mouth is!!! Schedule yourself an enjoyable weekend, and let him do it!!!!
Ha, my husband says I would not want his job, he does water reclamation, basically sewer. He does not think staying home taking care of kids, the house and making meals is not as hard as his job
Dang, this is a bit... concerning. Why not just take a girls weekend away and leave him with all your usual responsibilities so he can see what it’s like?
@ladyfreyja, He wouldn't trust you to have a weekend to yourself?
@ladyfreyja, shit my man is the same. But I don’t trust him either. I guess him and I both are fucked up 🤷🏼♀️ we like doing shit together rather than with others any ways.
Kiki : Sometimes when I'm driving all by myself, I have this fantasy that I get into a car crash. Not a big one with fire and explosions, but just like a little one, but I do get injured and I get to go to the hospital for two weeks and I sleep all day and I eat Jell-O and I watch so much TV and it's all covered by my insurance. My kids bring me balloons, and the nurses rub cream on my feet, and oh, my God, it's so amazing. Is that like something you guys fantasize about, too?
Carla , Amy : No.
Carla : You're batshit crazy.
Amy : Yeah.
Carla : And I'm never gonna get into a car with you
Same. He'd be up shit creek without a paddle if I couldn't do mom duties.
I’ve thought that plenty of times. He’d have a hard time taking care of kids and cleaning. Men are assholes
@closedflower, I looked the wrong way then. Him and my mom are a like in some of the most annoying ways ever. I’m like his mom because I got a big mouth, but I can control myself while she’s just crazy and annoys every one.
@sabi.bishh some times it's good to just stay quiet . They realize allll on thier own that they are being a real jerk 👿
@closedflower, not her. Most times she still thinks she’s right or had a good reason to act crazy. Annoying, that’s why my bf never wants to be around his family.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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Kiki : Sometimes when I'm driving all by myself, I have this fantasy that I get into a car crash. Not a big one with fire and explosions, but just like a little one, but I do get injured and I get to go to the hospital for two weeks and I sleep all day and I eat Jell-O and I watch so much TV and it's all covered by my insurance. My kids bring me balloons, and the nurses rub cream on my feet, and oh, my God, it's so amazing. Is that like something you guys fantasize about, too?
Carla , Amy : No.
Carla : You're batshit crazy.
Amy : Yeah.
Carla : And I'm never gonna get into a car with you