I would do the same thing. I'm considering asking my mom to not bring my nephew to the house, after the baby is born, when she babysits him. all he does is scream and cry because she tries to force him to take a nap when he doesn't want to and it frustrates and stresses me out.

@me_preggo, @arijane316 Thanks! Much appreciated, cuz that's how I really feel, too.. 😊

and it's not rude if you're still allowing them to come over and see the baby. you're not excluding them. you're simply asking for a little time to recover after the babys born

Look don't let any1 make you feel bad for what you feel you need to do..your going to have a brand new babi your a first time mom, if your husband don't like the idea maybe he can handle the kids

well yeah theyre teenagers... lol they stress strangers out...

@littlemissrainesmommy, @rhia... Yeah, I was afraid of this, too... I don't know if it's because I'm pregnant and I have no other kids, but they just stress me out... 😩😢😕

yes. this is your first child and you need alone time to bond with your baby. nothing is more important @mjbaby2016

@arijane316, @jjordan86 @me_preggo @searrahmone... That's how I feel, and I'm sure he and their mother would understand.

that is kind of rude its like your excluding them

I personally think it's wrong... they are his kids too.. and if they were also yours you couldn't just ship them away because you want time to adjust to the new baby... just my personal opinion.

I'm sure their mother and your man will completely understand. their mother has been in the same boat as you and your man kind of has too with being a father

Not wrong. It's not like you're banning them from the house. Plus if you don't have to worry about anything else but baby, why not?

I think it's a great idea, you need an adjust period and like you said the kids can come by and see the baby

not at all. my husband has 2 sons that we have 50% of the time and I am asking their mother for the same. I need time to adjust.