Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
Rachel·
first of all, why the fuck is he okay with being so far away from you being that you're about to pop in the next 2 1/2 weeks.... second of all, if your gut tells you he's lying trust it.
Camie·
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@rachellynn3316, it's because he's making money up there when he didn't have a job here but I am a jealous girlfriend and have been cheated on before but not by him and I want to believe he wouldn't but I'm so dumbfounded that he would even do it 😞 I dunno what to believe...
Rachel·
I fully understand, I went through something similar. But making money or not I wouldn't leave my 9 month pregnant woman that far away from me. wouldn't fly with me. I'm the jealous cling on girlfriend so I feel you. just don't believe one side, keep digging.
Alyssa·
Мама сына (5 лет)
Have you been married for a year or only been together for a year?
Camie·
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Haha oh I am I told her I needed like screenshots or for the girl to talk to me or something hahah @rachellynn3316
Tia Williams·
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trust your gut for one thing. if it doesn't feel right chances are it's not right. this girl has no reason to lie to you. but the fact the msgs are deleted would be a red flag for me. but everything he's saying would be a red flag as well.
Camie·
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Only dating for a year @florafedora and yea I get what you mean @icedtia I just don't want to believe he would be like that
Tia Williams·
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@brookiemarie, I understand. you never want to believe that about someone you put your trust in. and someone you love. just protect your heart. you don't deserve to get hurt.
Alyssa·
Мама сына (5 лет)
So you aren't married. Girl, don't try and make it work with some guy who cheats on you especially if you aren't married to him.
🎀Jacqui🎀·
It seems sketchy to me so if the other girl didn't message you and he deleted them then basically you never would've found out so what else is he doing that he's just deleting ? And for the other girl to message you why would she do it if they were innocent messages ? And who meets a girl and just talks about trucks? It's not making sense to me to be that simple idk I wouldn't be cool with it go with your gut I'm not trying to make you feel worse but as girls most of the time were able to put two and two together and if it doesn't seem right well we can usually tell he seemed to try to brush that off and get off the subject but you should definitely push the issue and find out more you don't need this stress especially this far in your pregnancy but you also don't need to be treated in a bad way and lied to either good luck girl hopefully it's nothing !
Sharon Wesselman·
trust your gut. it is normally right.
Brittany Overn·
Мама сына-младенца
sad to say... most situations like this usually are correct 😢 he's most likely fucking around hun.
Kenna Fahrenwald·
Мама сына (6 лет)
@brookiemarie, I would be asking why he was messing her in the first place and how they met. For me personally hiding things is the best way to piss me off. I agree with the ladies, something isn't right there. I just went through a breakup with a very similar situation and he didn't admit it till I told him there was no chance I'd ever be with him again. If you have to delete messages there's something wrong.
Camie·
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Well they met at a New Year's Eve party that I let him go to with his friends while I went with the girlfriends of his friends cuz I wouldn't be drinking and didn't want to be around a bunch of drunks and I told him not to get to drunk cuz I didn't want to have to go get him and drive him home but he did and she is telling me they were messaging that night but he is sayin it was Saturday they were talking.... The girl is kind of a drama starter so that's why I'm not sure to believe her or not.... @mom-09-16
Kenna Fahrenwald·
Мама сына (6 лет)
I'd definitely ask her to show me the messages then. But even so, he deleted the messages. I'd be letting him know that's not okay and there needs to be honesty, respect, and trust. You can't hide something because your significant other will be mad about it. To me that's lying....maybe get them together, the truth seems to come out in person. @brookiemarie
Kenna Fahrenwald·
Мама сына (6 лет)
Ooh and drama girls usually aren't the "lets talk about trucks" type of girls....
Camie·
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It wasn't the girl who told me it was her sister but yea I get what you mean and they won't get together he deleted her and everything and as far as I know he doesn't have her number but my trust with him is all but gone... And I don't know how to put it in words how he really hurt me and it's gunna take a lot for me to even let him go with his friends again... I don't want to be that girlfriend at all but I feel like I don't have a choice.. @mom-09-16
Kenna Fahrenwald·
Мама сына (6 лет)
I know how you feel. He got himself into this predicament though. It's his fault you can't trust him and now it's up to him to fix it. You don't really have a choice. You can't ignore your feelings because of his screw up. You do what you need to do!! Not only for you but for your baby too. You want a good, healthy relationship so your baby is born into a peaceful, trusting environment :) @brookiemarie