So correct me if I'm wrong. When you share a house with someone & you pay the same bills they do & the same amount ( other than her cellphone & my car insurance) don't we all own the house? So we all should have the same say in what happens in said house? Not only do I not have a say in how to raise my child ( my fiancé's mother always tells me what to do or how to dress him or when to feed him or tells me to make sure how to feed my child. Treats me like I can't care for my child) but I don't have a say in who I can have come over or where to put furniture. I know it sounds dumb but isn't it wrong to act like you own everything when they both are married, sit in their tails now not working, have two kids not even a year apart living off my tax money. Yea I receive food stamps but that's the only help I receive from the state because in today's economy I can afford my family & school. I can't even get help to go to school. I still have to come up with $2500-$3000 to even attempt to go to school. I'm hoping I'm not offending anyone who receives help. Trust me if you are honestly trying to do something with yourself & receiving help there is nothing wrong with that. But when you sit on your ass & have a new iPhone 6s, get your nails done every two weeks, constantly go to the mall & out to eat but you can't keep up with your 3 bills you have there is a problem. I'm seriously about to give up. I'm ready to tell my fiancé's mother she can raise my child (that I work for & make sure he has everything he needs) & go live in a cardboard box. I'm so upset with my life I don't know what to do anymore. I work my tail off for my baby & my hubby & it's not getting me anywhere but someone who sits on their ass can get everything handed to them on a silver platter. Am I wrong for feeling like this? I'm just looking for a brake in my life. I am so ready to give up. I feel like I can't do anything right or good enough for anyone.