I went through the same thing with my baby daddy but I realized my baby was now my priority and her dad didn't have my best interest at heart. As long as we had been together he had more than enough time to get his shit together and act right and respect me but he never changed and I knew if he hadn't changed by now he would never change. I had given him more than enough chances. Anything is possible and you need to at least show him what it's like to be without you at least for a little while. It was hard to walk away and I still think about him but then I remember what he did to me and everything he put me through so I left and never looked back. My baby is my happiness. She's all I need. I don't need someone who makes me unhappy in any way and neither do you. You can do it if you really want to and it will take time for him to fade from you memory. At least you know you gave it your all cuz I know I did. He just wasn't ready.

@izzysmommy1003, you do have a point.

Well a "man" doesn't cheat on his girl.. So are you really hitting a man??

@izzysmommy1003, lol, but I was raised not to hit a man.

When I was pregnant I had rage so if I ever caught my bf watching it I would seriously kick him. He would get mad but I'm like am I no to is enough now that I'm pregnant? And he would stop but I'm not dealing with that shit lol. Kick him! Lol

@katt18, thank you for words of encouragement. I appreciate it

@firsttimemom101315, it's hard to walk away but if it's for the best of you and your baby than you need to. Find a friend or family member to stay with until you get on your feet. I haven't been in the exact spot as you but thats what i say do i have been in really bad relationships and its hard to leave when you have been with someone for so long its hard to see life with out then event if its bad. best luck with all of it let me know how things work out.

@cristina545, I do not. I wish I did then I'd leave for a few days and think things over.

You don't have any relative or a friend you can stay at until he gets his act right? When you are tired of it you will do it when your ready at your time. You even hesistate about after you walk away. only you can make that decision for yourself.

@cristina545, @blanca_boo @katt18 @s_ochoa1215, I know, I want to leave but have no where to go. So how do I walk away from that? He is literally all I know.

if you have fought about it and its not resolved stop trying. he will notice and say something. but thats what i did and he sure as hell has to work for those special pics and what not.

Then you really need to tell him to make changes happen or you need to get out of this situation. Neither one of you will be happy if this continues

you just have to do whats best for you and your kid. you dont have time to keep repeating a broken record to him about the samething over and over again. he should respect your feelings and stop doing what he doing. if he can't then you should take a break until he realize your not playing around. Just stay at relatives until he can change his childish ways..

@firsttimemom101315, you deserve to be happy and to have some one who shows you they love you in every way. you will always find someone else don't think you won't. you deserve happiness in your life.

@s_ochoa1215, yes. He just keeps saying that he'll show me he loves me instead of saying it, and that he doesn't know what to do. I don't believe him

@marquettak, I love him, but a part of me wants to leave him because I'm tired of him making me feel like this. I don't even want him to touch me that's how bad it's gotten. @marbarbie07, I know I do but we've been together for a long time, he's my first everything. He's all I know, I have up everything for him. How do I walk away from that?

have you told him how he is making you feel?

You deserve better than that.

Currently going through the same thing