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Klynne
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So what are your opinions on your man watching porn? I seen my boyfriend was, and I'm guessing it was while I was…

So what are your opinions on your man watching porn? I seen my boyfriend was, and I'm guessing it was while I was sleeping. I never really liked him watching it. I just get jealous and upset, but maybe I'm just overreacting I don't know..

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del_1519098005_mama_kat89

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@acesmomma i understand how you feel. I am a bigger girl and i use to be uspet thinking he wanted skinnier women. He was clear it was more of him getting off then sexual attraction

avie

Hazel

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I'm the same way. Lol I think it's normal to feel that way. Porn portrays a false sense of beauty. So I always felt so many emotions knowing he watched women that looked nothing like me. I brought it up so much that I believe he stopped since he knew how I felt.

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bosw1805

melanie snyder

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@acesmomma, dont minimize how you feel just because most guys do it! Your feelings are important too!!

tristynnashllynn

JellyBean

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@acesmomma, Totally understand. I've had my moments of insecurities rising up. How my hubby puts up with me when I get all emotional, I'll never know. Lmao!

momboo

Naty

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@bosw1805 exactly, I'm absolutely agreed

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@avie I talked to my mom, she said it's a natural thing and it's what guys do. Lol

avie

Hazel

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@acesmomma, that's how I feel too. Like I'm making a big deal out of it.

avie

Hazel

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@acesmomma, hopefully it'll get better for you hun. I use to A LOT before we got Married and he used to watch porn a ton before we got married. Idk he took my feelings into consideration more as our relationship progressed and I explained that "what if I masturbated to men that had way more muscles than you and looked like A B & C blahblah". & then he was like I wouldn't like that at all. So that really hit home. & I'm pretty sure if he does watch porn it's once in a blue moon because He always requests that I send him my own sexy pictures now. Lol

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@bosw1805 We both have fantasies and we have talked about them. But it just really bugs me when he's looking at other girls, especially since he's seeing EVERYTHING. I'm a jealous person. Maybe I'm just making this a bigger deal than it should be because it's not ALL the time.

bosw1805

melanie snyder

Мама дочки-младенца

My husband is a recovering porn addict and whenever there are any signs of him slipping I feel betrayed. I believe in a relationship there is only room for 2 people, not even fantasies!

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@tristynnashllynn Yeah I don't think he does it often, just sometimes gets to me ya know?

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@momboo It sucks.

tristynnashllynn

JellyBean

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Personally, I don't mind, especially while I'm pregnant and constantly either exhausted, in severe pain from my pelvic bone, or throwing up. My husband doesn't do it very often and he knows that I do the same on occasions. Heck, sometimes we do it together, get giggly and then have our own together time. I know he's not watching it because of these other women, he'll he even tends to watch small things that remind him of me. 😅 But it's really a personal choice for each person. My husband and I are extremely open about our desires and comforts and I've absolutely no doubt in my mind that he is as head over heels in love with me as I am with him. Now if he was watching it on a regular basis, we'd probably have to talk about it, but he rarely does. Pretty sure I do it more than he does. ~Sheepish~

momboo

Naty

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It's bad addiction... And the same as people addicted to drugs same porn one time used will always want to do that,

It's hard to deal with but it's possible to overcome

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@avie I hate checking his phone, I shouldn't have too. I shouldn't have to worry. But I do ALL THE TIME.

del_1519098005_mama_kat89

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@acesmomma its ok to tell him how you feel

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@mama_kat89 I would like to mention it to him but I don't want to start an argument. Plus I'm sure he will tell me he won't do it again and will. So there's probably no point to say anything

avie

Hazel

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@acesmomma, omg you're just like me. I was always on his phone. Now he has nothing which he may just be deleting but my husband wouldn't think that far into deleting history

del_1519098005_mama_kat89

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@acesmomma i understand how you feel. I am a bigger girl and i use to be uspet thinking he wanted skinnier women. He was clear it was more of him getting off then sexual attraction

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@avie My boyfriend stopped as well for awhile. But I just seen on his phone he was watching it lastnight

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@mama_kat89 We have watched it together, and I've watched it alone. But if rather watch it together than him watch it by himself.

brossymommaoftwo

Klynne

Мама сына (1 год)

@jessyleigh Like it doesn't bother me as much as it used too. Because he's gonna do it regardless if I want him to or not. But I guess it upsets me he's looking at other girls. Especially girls way different then me.. Ugh

avie

Hazel

Мама дочки-младенца

I'm the same way. Lol I think it's normal to feel that way. Porn portrays a false sense of beauty. So I always felt so many emotions knowing he watched women that looked nothing like me. I brought it up so much that I believe he stopped since he knew how I felt.

del_1519098005_mama_kat89

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I dont mind him watching it. We have watched it together but im just like no i cant really focus on this. I have watched it by myself too.

jessyleigh

Jessica

Мама сына (1 год)

I use to get upset as I didn't like him looking st other naked girls and now I'm like go watch porn and leave me alone haha.