@acesmomma i understand how you feel. I am a bigger girl and i use to be uspet thinking he wanted skinnier women. He was clear it was more of him getting off then sexual attraction

I'm the same way. Lol I think it's normal to feel that way. Porn portrays a false sense of beauty. So I always felt so many emotions knowing he watched women that looked nothing like me. I brought it up so much that I believe he stopped since he knew how I felt.

@acesmomma, dont minimize how you feel just because most guys do it! Your feelings are important too!!

@acesmomma, Totally understand. I've had my moments of insecurities rising up. How my hubby puts up with me when I get all emotional, I'll never know. Lmao!

@bosw1805 exactly, I'm absolutely agreed

@avie I talked to my mom, she said it's a natural thing and it's what guys do. Lol

@acesmomma, that's how I feel too. Like I'm making a big deal out of it.

@acesmomma, hopefully it'll get better for you hun. I use to A LOT before we got Married and he used to watch porn a ton before we got married. Idk he took my feelings into consideration more as our relationship progressed and I explained that "what if I masturbated to men that had way more muscles than you and looked like A B & C blahblah". & then he was like I wouldn't like that at all. So that really hit home. & I'm pretty sure if he does watch porn it's once in a blue moon because He always requests that I send him my own sexy pictures now. Lol

@bosw1805 We both have fantasies and we have talked about them. But it just really bugs me when he's looking at other girls, especially since he's seeing EVERYTHING. I'm a jealous person. Maybe I'm just making this a bigger deal than it should be because it's not ALL the time.

My husband is a recovering porn addict and whenever there are any signs of him slipping I feel betrayed. I believe in a relationship there is only room for 2 people, not even fantasies!

@tristynnashllynn Yeah I don't think he does it often, just sometimes gets to me ya know?

@momboo It sucks.

Personally, I don't mind, especially while I'm pregnant and constantly either exhausted, in severe pain from my pelvic bone, or throwing up. My husband doesn't do it very often and he knows that I do the same on occasions. Heck, sometimes we do it together, get giggly and then have our own together time. I know he's not watching it because of these other women, he'll he even tends to watch small things that remind him of me. 😅 But it's really a personal choice for each person. My husband and I are extremely open about our desires and comforts and I've absolutely no doubt in my mind that he is as head over heels in love with me as I am with him. Now if he was watching it on a regular basis, we'd probably have to talk about it, but he rarely does. Pretty sure I do it more than he does. ~Sheepish~

It's bad addiction... And the same as people addicted to drugs same porn one time used will always want to do that,

It's hard to deal with but it's possible to overcome

@avie I hate checking his phone, I shouldn't have too. I shouldn't have to worry. But I do ALL THE TIME.

@acesmomma its ok to tell him how you feel

@mama_kat89 I would like to mention it to him but I don't want to start an argument. Plus I'm sure he will tell me he won't do it again and will. So there's probably no point to say anything

@acesmomma, omg you're just like me. I was always on his phone. Now he has nothing which he may just be deleting but my husband wouldn't think that far into deleting history

@acesmomma i understand how you feel. I am a bigger girl and i use to be uspet thinking he wanted skinnier women. He was clear it was more of him getting off then sexual attraction

@avie My boyfriend stopped as well for awhile. But I just seen on his phone he was watching it lastnight

@mama_kat89 We have watched it together, and I've watched it alone. But if rather watch it together than him watch it by himself.

@jessyleigh Like it doesn't bother me as much as it used too. Because he's gonna do it regardless if I want him to or not. But I guess it upsets me he's looking at other girls. Especially girls way different then me.. Ugh

I'm the same way. Lol I think it's normal to feel that way. Porn portrays a false sense of beauty. So I always felt so many emotions knowing he watched women that looked nothing like me. I brought it up so much that I believe he stopped since he knew how I felt.

I dont mind him watching it. We have watched it together but im just like no i cant really focus on this. I have watched it by myself too.

I use to get upset as I didn't like him looking st other naked girls and now I'm like go watch porn and leave me alone haha.