really need some advice and information if you have been through the same thing:
my baby daddy and I split more like I ran on Dec 8. I had asked him for a year an 3 months to quit all drugs our daughter is almost 6 months now he was really deep in the drugs on the 8th od on the 9th his mom had to call 911 and they resuscitated him between when she was born and when I left I was a single mom with another child on the house that was older then me. he always choose the drugs over his family I tried so hard to be a family cook clean work 40+ hours a week and took care of the baby with no help. all the sudden he wants to go to court ( no biggie) but I have to get her social and he won't give me his social he won't give me her birth certificate so I can file for assistance, he has only given me 120$ for her in over a month. he's never helped and now all the sudden filing for full custody. today I meant him drove an hour for him to be a half hour late and to get mad that I said he don't have a case he left after spending a little over 30 minutes with her. now I'm worried that he is going to get some custody and I'm scared for my baby because of his past he supposedly is clean for 3 weeks now but after a year and a half how can I believe that
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you need to start recording everything that happens, document the time and date and the situation. get a lawyer and give them those documents. at this point it doesn't matter if you sound like your "bashing him" you're doing what's best for your child and that is not for her to be around that. try talking to your lawyer about supervised visitation. and as far as his mother goes, here in Maryland they have something called "grandparents rights" where the grandparent is given a day out of the month with the child. I don't know how it is where you live, but look into everything . OH! and you can suggest to the court that you would feel comfortable with them giving him pee tests for drugs monthly, and if he doesn't pass, they will rip him out of the situation real quick
ok I will they release a report to me or no @countrymama2015
Get a lawyer and mention it to them and they can get the police record of everything
how do I bring it up in court with out it sounding like I'm bashing or making something up since right now he can piss clean. @countrymama2015
Most likely they won't. Just make sure the judge knows about his drug history
thank you @countrymama2015 him and his mom are fully convinced that they will get full custody
They usually rule in the mothers favor especially if he is into drugs he might get supervised visits like once a month
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if you have any questions, message me because I know how this shit goes involving children and court.