She truly has been, most people don't like there in laws but mine are great :) I got lucky @searrahmone

Seems like your MIL is heaven sent. Lol. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.

me @searrahmone

I know :( but baby girl is my main priority now and if she can't accept and understand that then her problem not mine . And me to I'm so lucky I was so scared I was going to be alone with no help me earrahmone

I hope she does act reasonable. It sucks having to cut people off because they just don't get it. I'm just happy you have support to get you through your rough times and someone to rely upon when it comes to baby girl.

Thank you @foreveryoung247 I honestly don't know why she would be jealous it's not like I'm going to keep Madison from her or she won't be my mom anymore. I'm just trying to give my baby the best life I can that's what she did when she married my dad

Do what's best for you and the baby @brandylemonds15 it honestly sounds like she's jealous and that's not ok. If she doesn't act reasonable then that's her problem !

I think so to , and truthfully it will be better for my mom she can't afford to help me she's already struggling as it is I'm gonna try to talk to her and have an adult conversation with her about everything lets just hope she acts reasonable @arijane316

Well at least you have people who look up to you. take your mil's offer and move in with her. it'll be better for all of you in the long run

I understand! My mom is the same way growing up she was so cruel to me and my siblings, after she divorced my dad she started treating us better but she still isn't much of a mom by siblings consider me there mother figure @arijane316

Lol damn autocorrect. my dad said it's like her brain fell out of her head after they got married haha I know that sounds so mean but she really isn't very smart

Seriously!!!! @arijane316

@at ijane316,

My mom has never been one to show love or affection ever according to her siblings and I think having me at 14 just made it even worse because she had no idea how to be a mother mar ijane316

Lol sounds a little familiar. my mother lacks the part of her brain that contains common sense and she's selfish as can be

I know but my mom is a special something I swear she's missing the part of her brain that makes her care and think rationally @arijane316 don't get me wrong I love my mom but for a long time I had like zero relationship with her because of how she treats people

Thank you @marie_xo

My fiancé has a brother and sister but he was the oldest and they had a really close relationship. And I love my mil she's been a maternal figure to me since the very first time I met her and we've been each other's crutch when we miss my fiancé and she's going to be a great grandma I see no reason for her not to be a part of Madison's life if the roles were reversed I know my mom would want to be apart of the babies life @searrahmone

That's not your fault, nor is it any reason for her to act the way she is. you're all family now whether she likes it or not, she needs to accept that fact and the fact that some people are better off than she is. not everyone has the same things in life

Do what's best for you and baby (:

I know I've been struggling with this since we found out I was pregnant I talked to her about it and she got better honestly I think she's intimidated because my mil can help in ways she can't @arijane316

I've definitely got things to consider , thanks @bubblebeck

I'm sorry to hear about your fiancé. Honestly, if your fiancé was the only child his mother had I think it's awesome for you to allow her and her family in your daughters life. They'd really appreciate seeing him in her. If you guys aren't on bad terms I don't see why you wouldn't allow them in your daughters life. As for your mom she should be understanding. You and baby need space to grow and to call your own. Even if that means it's just a room. It's not like you'll be keeping her grand baby away from her.

I'd take the offer. you don't need someone, who's going to be negative about things, around you while you're pregnant nor do you need them around the baby once it's here

I agree with @searrahmone

@searrahmone,

My mom is , she didn't like my fiancé and now that he's gone she hates the fact that I'm allowing his family to be apart of mine and Madison's life . I'm just so torn on what to do i truthfully think in a way it will be better for Madison if I go with my mil but it's hard to think about living there without my fiancé and if I do go it may destroy my relationship with my mom and I don't want that but my moms is to small me and my sister share a room and now my little brother is talking bout moving in and there's no room for any of Madison's stuff

Do what's best for you and your growing family. Mom just seems a little jealous but I'm sure she'll come around. Don't let anyone make you feel guilty because they can't have their way. At the end of the day you can't please everyone, focus on your happiness.