Hey Moms I Don't Get Along With My MIL That Well But I Really Want 2 Have Her In My Babies Life Bc My Mom Passed ! How Do You Ladies Deal With Your MIL or How Did She Find Out You Were Pregnant ?
@theshermanfamily, okay cool I hope it works out for the best and y'all have a good relationship together
Yeah I Know She Will I'm Just Gonna Tell Her When I'm Like 4 Months @skyy12221
@theshermanfamily, awe I'm sorry 😢 hopefully she'll be positive about it even if she doesn't she'll come around eventually so don't stress over it
Lol Yeah I Want It 2 Be Special Because My Mom Passed & She'll Be The Only Grandma @skyy12221
@theshermanfamily, that's a good idea my hubby just shows her the pregnancy test 😂
Yeah I Want Him 2 Tell Her or We Suprise Her & Tell Her With Like A Little Gift or Something ! We Don't See Eye 2 Eye Alot But I Think She'll Be Excited @skyy12221
@theshermanfamily, I didn't tell my mom in law my husband did and with both my pregnancies he told her the day we found out. So I take a test I tell my hubby then he tells her. You can wait but we always tell our moms the same day we find out so they can be mad now and excited later but they don't get mad that's just in case.
He Isn't Wrong She'll Come Around Though Watch She Wouldn't Have A Choice ! Parents Forget That We Have 2 Take Care of Them When They Get Old & The One Person They Treat Wrong You May End Up Needing Them @mrshamilton830
@theshermanfamily, he barely deals with his mom because of it, he been told her im his wife and she has to respect me and if she can't then he won't come around her at all
Yeah That's Similiar 2 My Situation With My MIL We Speak & Are on Good Terms But I Don't Think I Should Tell Her I'm Pregnant Until The Time Is Right Because I Don't Want Anyone Speaking Bad on My Pregnancy Like I Want 2 Wait Until I'm At Least 6 Months Pregnant . I Really Want Us 2 Be Close @skyy12221
Wow That's Sad He Should Stand Up 2 His Mom & Let Her Know How Important It Is For Y'all 2 Be 1 & A Family & If She Doesn't Understand or Respect That Then He Doesn't Speak 2 Her That's The Only Way @mrshamilton830
Yeah As Long As You Tried That's What Matters But Eventually She Will Come Around Life Has A Way of Making You Change . Just Pray on It @babywalker15
I live with mine we get along I've always been nice that's just me at first she didn't like me cause I "stole her baby" and she thought I was just a fling/another chick passing through and I'd be dumped after a while. But we got married she was mad but eventually got over it. We still bump heads sometimes but we're really close, I've learned a lot from her. She has supported both of my pregnancies and loves them both and buys stuff for them both whenever she can.
me and my MIL have literally no relationship and we only speak to each other i feel the tension and I know she doesn't care for me, so it's up to my husband to establish a relationship between his mom and daughter
I did try she ignored my text and calls and I'm okay with that as long as she understands when my child is born don't try and talk to me because I'm not willing to hear her out this second time she has done this last I had a miscarriage@theshermanfamily
Yeah I'm Sorry 2 Hear That Thats Not Right But You Guys Should Try & Mend Your Relationship ! Yeah My MIL Is Not Like That She Just Listen 2 What His Hatin Ass Sister Say & Then She Act Different But Deep Down I Know She Love Me Its Just His Sister @babywalker15
I don't get along with mine at all she told her son he doesn't know if my child is his even tho we planned our child so I don't want her no where near me and my child some might say I'm petty but I can't deal with a grown ass women who can tell her son to leave his pregnant girlfriend at least until he finds out if it's his child@theshermanfamily
I get u I feel the same way except its grandpa my dad died so just gotta deal with what we got
Yeah I Just Want My Baby 2 Know My Bf's Mom Bc My Mom Passed Away @malinaa215
lol I can't stand mine but idk I just do. what I have to for my son its super hard
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
How old?
How old were you when you lost your virginity?
How do you tell a grown ass woman that they stink 😵💫😵💫 I’m going nuts! 1 whole week back & my mil hasn’t showered once… I know this is mean but come on 😮💨
Experienced moms..Did you all tear during delivery with your first? I’m expecting with my first and I keep watching YouTube videos on how to avoid tearing LOL I’m so fearful. Can it really be avoided ? 🤭if so how ...
@theshermanfamily, you're welcome 😊