hey ladies! I'm new here, but have a really personal question. I had sex against my will when I was 16. the guy shoved…

Aww! Well I'm so happy you were able to beat the odds. Congratulations! @fallenshivers

@mrsshove, i was on one called Yaz for about a year and found out later the drug companies found infertility with that one but after I year of using that switched to one called amethyst and used that for years since it helped with how heavy I used to bleed. I went off that about 5 years ago and it caused me to never get periods again and my doctors said it's probably what made me infertile. Me and my so just gave up after a while hoping on having a child together, but recently found out we were expecting somehow. We were also struggling since he was a very heavy pot smoker and because of smoking for so long it lowered his speed count.

I was on for about 6-8 months @fallenshivers

I was on the pill, I dont know if that is one that would make me infertile. @fallenshivers

I had a somewhat similar issue, but I had a massive vaginal tear when I was about 15 and was told I had to have surgery, but I went for a more natural approach to heal. However, it left me unable to have sex without bleeding or being in extreme pain. It took me years to finally be able to have sex again comfortable. Then I found out the birth control I had used for years made me infertile. Me and my so had tried for so long and I was also under lots of stress from my job, but after I quit that job we were able to get pregnant even though I was told I wouldn't be able to.

I'm going to private message you @mrsshove

kinda had the same problem. talk to your doctor our was natural but it took 3 months

@hannahk0624 I want to know the same.

@brandylemonds15, that's what one Dr suggested. I tried counseling, and talking to people. nothing has helped.

@hannahk0624 sooo much. I'm practically in tears.

does it hurt you for him to go past 3 inches?

Sounds like some mental have you tried talking to someone maybe that will help I've heard of slot of girls in your situation having similar problems , I'm sorry that that happened to you at such a young age

Try relaxation oils and candles and a bunch of foreplay. Kinda gross but try getting something further past it at your own pace. And just routinely try to work past it. @mrsshove

that's like super expensive. I've looked into it @mamadev

Try invetro (?)

I've been to two gynos, they say nothing is wrong anatomically. that it may just be from my mind blocking out the pain from when I was younger. no matter how many different ways we try he's never been able to cum inside. therefore one of them said I may not be able to get pregnant.

personally I feel if he penetrates u and sperm or precum is released for sure you'll get pregnant.but please get checked out

That's sounds concerning,3 inches ,you should get checked out and make sure everything is ok before you conceive,but as long as the sperm is their you CAN get pregnant