landon1002
landon1002
landon1002

So would it be considered desperate to put my baby registry on here? his family doesnt like me and wont even talk to me and my family really isnt even close at all. only ppl i have is my mom and little sis who is 13 and i dont want all the stress on my mom but my husband and i literally have 3 outfits 2 blankets and thats all... idk what else to do and i feel like a complete failure because i feel ill have nothing for my baby cause i cant even afford a carseat or diapers or anything he needs.....

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landon1002

thank you @coraanne!!

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coraanne
Cora·Мама сына (3 года), беременна (22 нед.)

Wow I don't understand how you saying you'd feel horrible for her spending money on shipping turned into you only wanting money... You didn't come off that way momma! Things will come your way and your baby will get he needs.

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landon1002

@courtney_boyea, Im having a boy and I know i do have some time thats why i said i would look and see what i could do b4 her spending all kinds of money when she flat out said she didnt have funds and that she is a single mom. didnt think that would have been taken the wrong way.

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courtney_boyea
Courtney·Мама двоих (младенец)

wow.that was very rude of those girls. are you having a boy or girl? you are only 24 weeks so you have plenty of time. take a deep breath and just relax. I know that's easier said than done but you will get through and if you go to your church they will help you too. you could always put out an ad on craigslist asking for baby items.

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landon1002

@phasion, i cant even say thank you enough!!! i am so glad there are some people that do understand. And i am seeing all i can do to make sure i have things. I do have some time I just dont know where else to really go and i have nobody so thank you for understanding!!

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@landon1002, you still have time baby clothes aren't important but definitely a car seat, diapers and stroller. You will make it love . Don't stress yourself out those things will come when you least expect it . Just take it easy for the sake of your child. Keep working hard and asking for donations and whatever it is you need for your child and those items that you need will come. Remember you still have time.

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@tristenmyers, I don't think she meant it that way to ship those items are extremely expensive so she was being considerate to your pockets because you did mention you were a single parent. That's why she said what she said .

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landon1002

Cajt believe how some of u are taking this way out of proportion when all i was saying is i feel like a failure that I have nothing yet and if it would be too much to put my registry on here... thanks for the support wow... guess some people just know to judge and wont ask whole story...

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missing9user
missing9user·Мама троих детей

@tristenmyers, @queenquee ☝🏾️☝🏾☝🏾☝🏾😒

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missing9user
missing9user·Мама троих детей

@landon1002, I didn't bash you . (People on social media use that word too loosely) You don't have to explain to me . At the end of the day , this is your situation .

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landon1002

@tristenmyers i am in need of things its just i dont wanna take all that from u since i feel like u need it for ur baby i dont want u out of things and my mom was a single mom to both my sister and me and growing up as we did i wouldnt want to have u out on anything.

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landon1002

and i didnt want to be like send it all cause i could use it all and have u look at me like i shouldnt have a child if i cant provide anything. @elenaj i do need items and im not in it for money hense why i said my registry not money and i grew up only having hand me downs and being homeless so no i dont want the feel sorry for me act it was a honest question if it would be bad if i put my registry on here like iv seen a few other women do. No need to bash people for asking a simple question

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landon1002

I was more of thinking it woukd cost a lot to send it. yes i do need it but i would feel horrible cause ur a single mom and ur baby guna be here soon that u would need it. i do need things its just the fact that i didnt want to take if ur baby needs it as a single mom

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missing9user
missing9user·Мама троих детей

Hmm interesting . @tristenmyers that was sweet of you to offer . She must not be in too much of a need if she turned it down .

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tristenmyers

Wow well, I'm sorry I guess I misunderstood hahahaha. I was under the impression that you were in desperate need for your child and I just offered about $500 worth of baby stuff that anybody would be grateful for. But okay, my bad I guess. For future reference, you may want to re-word your desperate "cry for help" because if your honest intentions were to only obtain money from a gofund or only brand new items for a baby supposedly in "desperate need" then one might misunderstand. Either way, my offer no longer stands. Hope things work out for you and your baby.

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landon1002

@tristenmyers, I would feel horrible if u shipped that especially with u being a single mother!! U are for sure a strong woman! I am asking at church if there any way anyone there can help and ill for sure start a go fund me thing. iv seen then around but didnt want to seem too desperate. If I cant find anything once time gets closer i will for sure let you know!!! I beyond appreciate it!!!

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tristenmyers

I am a young single mother struggling at times myself. I recently was blessed with an abundance of baby boy items, some new and some hand-me-down. I don't have the funds to jump on your registry but if you are interested in these items in the pictures, I can ship them to you?

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jlrobinson

I would be worrying about getting a car seat. The hospital will not let you leave without one. Yard sales, Craigslist, and consignment shops are good places to check.

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mommastone
Kristina·В ожидании первенца

Craigslist is also very good. I'm sorry times are tough.

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laurenbeth
laurenbeth·В ожидании первенца

I would also recommend setting up a gofundme account. Explain your situation.

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landon1002

Iv been looking at every yard sale and there nothing by my area for any facebook. Just feels like time flying and i wont have anything. @preggerstone

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mommastone
Kristina·В ожидании первенца

Besides that, try yard sales, consignment sales, and Facebook pages that are in your area. You can things really cheap in good condition. Good luck hun!

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