So I'm having a really hard time right now. My dad collapsed at work last Tuesday and has been in a coma ever since. They did an EEG today and we found out that he has no brain activity other than a little bit in his brain stem. My mom, brother, and I will have to make a decision next week on what we want to do. As much as I don't want to see my dad like this and I know he wouldn't want to live like this for years, I'm not sure I'm ready to say "go ahead and turn the ventilator off." My dad is m...