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To marry or not to marry.... that is the question. so me and my bf have been together for two years. We both discussed…

To marry or not to marry.... that is the question. so me and my bf have been together for two years. We both discussed getting married and having children ( he has children already). We both desired to marry each other as well as have children together. Found out that I'm pregnant now my mother is pressing the marriage issue. Wanted to get a few things together before we got married. Now that I am pregnant should that be am automatic plunge to the alter?

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ginag918

GinaGМама двоих (младенец)

Yea I've never been one to do something because it will make me look better to others let them tLk we all have one life to live and they can't live yours for you!

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1sttimemommywithtwins

1sttimemommywithtwinsМама подростка

@ginag918, @chhaya @ftm-jess @mamas_mia @regelbaby I agree with all you ladies 100%... I think ppls main reason for rushing into marriage when they get pregnant is bc it looks better. But like @mamas_mia we will be rushing to the divorce lawyer as well. 😮

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mamas_mia

mamas_miaМама дочки-младенца

Not unless you want an automatic plunge to the divorce lawyer as well. Marry for love, not because people say you should.

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ftm-jess

JessicaВ ожидании первенца

you guys should get married when yall are ready to.

my BF and I are going on 6 years and still aren't married , now that we're expecting our first child our families seem to need us to be married.

1st I think it's none of their business what we do.

2nd I don't want to get married while I'm pregnant.

3rd we are thinking about waiting till our son is old enough to be the ring bearer ♡

so I think yall need to do what feels right and don't let yourselves get rushed/pushed into marriage.

good luck :)

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missing17user

missing17userМама сына-младенца

No never get married just because you had a baby. If you want to wait for any reason just wait until you're ready.

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ginag918

GinaGМама двоих (младенец)

No don't get married at this moment just because you're pregnant get married when you guys are ready, did u want to have a wedding? If so then wait for him to ask u with a ring if that's yAll thing n plAn your wedding. If you have things in the relationship u guys wanted to work on before marriage still do thT n marry on yAll terms not because of bBy

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Getting married because of baby

Getting married because of baby Is there anyone that feels you have to get married to your boyfriend now that you're pregnant? Or are your parents forcing you? Me and my boyfriend havent really spoken about it but I don't think that just because you're having a baby together you HAVE to be married. A baby can either make or break a relationship so I'd rather wait it out and see how everything plays out. What are your opinions? We already live together btw

Keep the baby or Abortion.......

Keep the baby or Abortion....... I'm 5 weeks pregnant which was not planned, told my family and there over the moon. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we said we would be together no matter what. We both live with our parents and I'm in full-time work and he isn't. I've always wanted to be a mum it's one of my dreams, but my boyfriend thinks we should have an abortion because he thinks we are not ready, he doesn't have a full-time job and we are not living together. I don't believe in abortions and he said he would stay with me if I decide to keep it. But I scared he might leave. Should I keep the baby that I've always wanted and might not ever have one or have in abortion, know I have to live with the pain for the rest of my life and what till we are both ready? Please HELP :-(

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