To marry or not to marry.... that is the question. so me and my bf have been together for two years. We both discussed getting married and having children ( he has children already). We both desired to marry each other as well as have children together. Found out that I'm pregnant now my mother is pressing the marriage issue. Wanted to get a few things together before we got married. Now that I am pregnant should that be am automatic plunge to the alter?
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@ginag918, @chhaya @ftm-jess @mamas_mia @regelbaby I agree with all you ladies 100%... I think ppls main reason for rushing into marriage when they get pregnant is bc it looks better. But like @mamas_mia we will be rushing to the divorce lawyer as well. 😮
Not unless you want an automatic plunge to the divorce lawyer as well. Marry for love, not because people say you should.
you guys should get married when yall are ready to.
my BF and I are going on 6 years and still aren't married , now that we're expecting our first child our families seem to need us to be married.
1st I think it's none of their business what we do.
2nd I don't want to get married while I'm pregnant.
3rd we are thinking about waiting till our son is old enough to be the ring bearer ♡
so I think yall need to do what feels right and don't let yourselves get rushed/pushed into marriage.
good luck :)
No never get married just because you had a baby. If you want to wait for any reason just wait until you're ready.
No don't get married at this moment just because you're pregnant get married when you guys are ready, did u want to have a wedding? If so then wait for him to ask u with a ring if that's yAll thing n plAn your wedding. If you have things in the relationship u guys wanted to work on before marriage still do thT n marry on yAll terms not because of bBy
Yea I've never been one to do something because it will make me look better to others let them tLk we all have one life to live and they can't live yours for you!