Как справиться с одиночеством и непониманием в отношениях в all

Okayy guys , yesterday I decided to go MIA because my boyfriend said some really mean things to me . I expressed my concerns about where we are in our relationship & how I felt emotionally , physically & sexually disconnected from him . & this was the response I got . Ever since then I turned my phone off & just deleted every app I have off of my phone just trying to put together all the pieces of this message . 24 hours later & I still haven't found the answers . I've been crying nonstop. Just all around depressed because this is how he's been feeling about me for months ! Unhappy . I've been holding the Michael Kors watch he gave me the first night we ever had sex . Just replaying that magical day over & over & over again in my head . I've been reading old text messages & looking at old pictures wondering if this relationship is worth fighting for . & tbh I still don't know . I can feel my heart literally breaking knowing I can't get anything he said to me out of head . I feel so bro

i just dont know what to do.. im emotionally scared. a year ago when me and my boyfriend werent together i was with an ex and he did not tell me he had an STD and he gave it to me(the reason i left him) and i confronted him about it and all he did was lie ! so now me and my childs father and were pregnant with my daughter, and its so hard dealing with this knowing i have a sexual transmitted infection.. i just hate it how men do this to innocent females.. ive been clean all my life and im dealing with chalmydia now trach 😭😭😭 this shit is so depressing... im just scared it will turn into HIV:( please ladies no negative thoughts..

My husband doesn't understand that's it is starting to get uncomfortable to have sex..... Been only two weeks and he keeps asking and when I don't let him he goes "this is why guys cheat" .... Like excuse me?! I'm so mad!

How Did Brandon Reassure Me About Trust in Our Relationship?

I see all these posts about everyone's boyfriends cheating on them and it made me sad and worried so I text Brandon and said "if you ever felt like cheating, you'd just leave me right?" 30 seconds later he calls me and his first sentence is "babe what the fuck" and he made me feel better immediately. Every ex I've ever had has cheated on me, it's hard to trust people. But he just gives me a different feeling. So I got happy and then I said "I watch you while your sleeping sometimes" 😂😂 he found that creepy but I can't help but stare at him sometimes because it's hard to believe how lucky I am to have him. He's so handsome 😍😍 I hope our son takes after him, he'll be stealing all the girls hearts.

у моего благоверного по ходу начался какой-то сдвиг по фазе. я уже так устала от этого. писала уже что хочется все закончить, сижу думаю как быть пока что. но он жутко выносит мне мозг причём без причины, любви ему не хватает чтоли? но он сам особо не изъявляет желания проводить со мной время в последние дни. сегодня поехала по магазинам, одна! ходила ходила в тц связи нет, выхожу мне прилетает куча смс от него вначале спрашивает где я потом: эй . потом: ну и все ясно с тобой давай удачи и много много злых смайлов. я вышла с тц пришли мне все эти гневные смс я в недоумении что я сделала то. до этого сказала ему что я гуляю. пишу ему что была в магазине. он давай орать что знает где и с кем я была. я в ещё большем недоумении т к была я одна..говорит: тебя видели с каким-то хахалем. я оборачиваюсь по сторонам и начинаю ржать и не понимать что вообще происходит и мой милый по ходу сходит с ума. либо у меня сложилось такое впечатление что он пытается какой то свой грешок на меня перекинуть

everyone keeps saying " just leave him, why are you putting up with this, you dont need him." I do. he's my babys father, he is the love of my life. you cant just fall out of love with someone over night. it still hurts regardless.

Husband trying to make up, sending me and my best friend for 2 day stay at the spa this weekend, he says I'm upset and putting stress on the baby so he wants me to relax, and when I come home if I still want a divorce he will sign the papers, sounds like a plan I can't wait for my massage

кааак?как забыть и отпустить?? Месяц назад вернулась домой.ушла от любимого мужчины. Он алкоголик.за этот месяц вроде более менее пришла в норму.и тут 18 числа он мне позвонил..Говорил что любит и вернет меня назад неважно через сколько и то что сейчас он спит со своей первой женой это все не то...что кроме моих глаз и улыбки ему ничего не надо....спросил люблю я его-я промолчала на что он сказал я знаю что любишь...и все..с того дня ни звонков ни смс...меня снова начало рвать изнутри....не могу найти себе места..сердце мается...плачу снова..зачем надо было все это говорить если выполнять все это он не собирается...как забыть??Что делать??

Anyone else's man get real defensive when you ask them why they don't have sex with you that much anymore?? It's so annoying like he can go over a week or whatever and I'm dying. Then he gets mad when I ask why. Hmmm

How many of you ladies live with your boyfriends and currently don't work? Do they help you out with your bills and things? Did you have to directly ask them too or did they just offer to do so knowing you are unemployed...

I don't think I was made to live with someone other than my children. maybe because I'm the only child but I like my OWN space. even my kids go and spend weekends with relatives some weekends so I can be alone. my BF has his own apartment and I have my own but he's literally at my house every damn day. sometimes I just want to say go home already. but wondering how to not be so rude about it. he even mentioned getting rid off his place. .I'm thinking hell no please don't lol

I am 99% sure he is buying pills again. I tried to open up to him today and he basically told me to get the fuck over it. I don't want to be a single mom, but it looks like I have no choice. Im not dealing with his childishness anymore. I can't. I can't handle him anymore.

pretty sure my husband is trying to leave me. i don't know what i could have possibly done so i don't think it's me but he's been ridiculously mean for no reason and today he said that he didn't think things were going to work out with us and that if he stayed he'd only be staying for the baby. now part of me is like "fuck you i can do better by my damn self" but the other part of me is like, "you fucking ruined my life you better stay with me" ugh. i don't know what to do and i have no one to talk to about anything because this shit is embarrassing

My husband is depressed. Need some insight here. My husband and I have been together for 15 years. Married 2. We have a beautiful home with 2 wonderful little boys. He works hard and I stay home with the boys. I'll admit I go thru some periods of being in a funk but he's expressed to me that he's really unhappy with himself. He feels like he's not a good dad (he's a great dad has been hands on since day 1). He spends a lot of time with the boys. He said its has nothing to do with me its all him. Is that even possible for him to be so unhappy and it have nothing to do with me? I usually don't post such private stuff about but I'm at a loss here. I'm in tears right this out

Sorry for the long post! Okay. My SO is aloud to be friends with females, and talk to females, because I trust that he knows what's appropriate and what's not, and I trust him. There is only ONE female that I don't let him talk to or have anything to do with because she has tried from the very beginning of our relationship to break us up because she hates me. Well my SO has had an instagram for a while and I never really got into anything but Facebook, but I figured I would give it a try today and made an account. I followed him on there and went to look at his followers and people he follows and the first person to pop us was the ONE GIRL I don't want him speaking to. I deleted my instagram and I told my SO I'm upset and he thinks I'm being stupid. Am I in the wrong for getting upset?

Some nights I just lay in bed and ask my self, why are me and my SO still together? Its like he is not physically attracted to me anymore, we argue and get prissy with each other all the time, we have(well I have) trust issues and idk, I'm just not happy anymore.

Девочки, вот что делать не знаю Муж на прочь не поддерживает, мне плохо и маральего и физически и так же интимно(потому что нельзя) Никакой поддержки нет когда мне плохо,только и слышу что давай выздоравливай я с ним не буду сидеть Только и может говорить что я поеду к другу коробы собирать или если уезжает старается подольше у сестры посидеть или если приезжает то в планшете сидит Вчера ночью было плохо,мне так стало обидно что аж до слез,я плакала он да же не обнял меня и сказал что я его бешу что каждый день мозги мою, я говорю как тебе плохо я жопу рву что бы плохо тебе не было и все сделаю, а ты мне в ответ никакой благодарности,будет тебе плохо когда нибудь я тоже так сделаю Девочки не знаю что делать :( Я морально истощена :(((

My mom thinks Carson is getting separation anxiety because I was telling her he won't sleep anywhere but with me in my bed. He also cries if I face away from him while he's still awake. Is this the beginning of separation anxiety? Being a SAHM I'm with my son 24/7 literally. I never get a baby sitter he goes EVERYWHERE with me. I also out of habit do everything for him even when his dad is home so no one ever cares for him but me. Do I need to make some changes? I want what's best for us both obviously. Ugh.

so i no longer speak to my sperm donor due to the fact that he was bashing my fiancé and causing issues and bc he started dating my whore of a mother who is on drugs. even after i told him im not going to have her in my life. so now he is having his mother bash my fiancé and tell me that im just going to be the one working and taking care of kids whilst my fiancé isnt. im tired of the bull crap. so i told her that it is going to stop. she tried saying that to say my fiancé has a job is a joke, well he has three. so suck on that lollipop. im done i told her in no nice words that it will stop or you are out of my life too. and to think that i actually believed you when you said you cared about me bull. makes me feel like all the time they said they tried to find me was a joke, they didnt. my fiancé found the court case where i was taken away in less than five minutes and it takes you almost 14 years to... any advice on how to deal with this, it is stressing me out so much that its gi

I've always been independent and always said I don't need a man to make me happy which is true but seeing y'all with your hubby or SO makes me a bit sad. Whoever I been with in the past I've literally gave it my all and my last relationship with my BD I literally gave him 190% of effort and all. So makes me feel like why can't I seem to find someone who loves me as much as I love them? I believe I would make an amazing girlfriend/wife. Sometimes I feel like to complete my happiness is having the one person who I'll love to spend the rest of my life with. I have everything I need and ever wanted but finding someone who will love me just as much as I'll love them is what is missing in my heart. Some nights I'm good and don't need it but most nights I crave that and makes me feel so lonely 😔 like why? #PersonalPost #EmotionalAF

Вот лежу и думаю... не хочу замуж... 16 июня расписываемся... а я не хочу!! Гормоны...или предсвадебный невроз... не пойму.... Да и с чего ему быть...3 раз выхожу... всё уже знакомо.... Странное чувство! 😐

Well, it looks like I'm single. I knew this day would come. He said its only temporary until we both get our issues fixed. I have a spending problem an he feels like he's controlling my life. But he's still going to live with me an sleep in my bed bcuz he doesn't want me to be alone. I got news for him. One of us is sleeping on the couch bcuz I'm not about to sleep next to someone who just broke up with me bcuz we both have issues

Приснился мне сегодня (с чего вдруг?) бывший, что-то воспоминания нахлынули) такая прямо животная страсть с ним была🙈😜 с мужем совсем не так: чувства как-то глубже, акцент больше на любовь и уважение, наверно... И возник вопрос: в отношениях всегда преобладает либо страсть, либо нежность? Или бывает, что любовь прекрасно сочетается с бурным сексом? У меня как-то все отношения делились на 2 категории: дикую страсть (обычно в любовь это не перерастало), или на более спокойные, но серьезные отношения. Моё мнение, что страсть перегорает быстро и ничего потом не остается. Или возможна страсть на долгие годы?..

ой девочки, как пережить расставание с любимым мужчиной? 4 дня назад поссорились с мужем, наговорили друг другу гадостей. вместе 3 года и он раньше таким небыл, еще во время моей беременности он стал грубым, ни чего не хочет, только играется в свои игрушки на компе. расходились, сходились уже раз 10, но это точно последний раз. а я его очень люблю, сама не знаю за что. вот он ушел и мне так грустно, ни чего не хочется, готовить и убираться не могу, руки опускаются и доча чувствует мое переживание и тоже капризничает. девченки, честно жить не хочется (( конечно время лечит и всё такое, но ожидание, когда же мне станет легче тоже выматывает (( спать одна тоже не могу.

I live separately from my fiance... he lives out of state because we are broke. and can't afford our own place. and it's so hard being away from him. especially toward the end of this pregnancy because I physically need his help more than I used to. and when I go into labor he won't be here. I'll just have to call him and hope he gets here in time because he lives two hours away. I miss him so much.