@sheaxx, you & I both girl . But he told me how he felt about that so I kinna just let him do his manly things while I just sat back & waited for him to come home to me . That's all I can do . @sheaxx

No no . I don't feel that way at all . I needed someone to tell me that I needed change . Especially from married women or people who've been with their SO's for years . We've only been together for 10 & half months . It's important that I know this . I love him . & if I gotta do certain things to keep him then that's what I'll do . @jeniel

@xoxoalexusss, I'm not trying to come down in you. I'm sorry if it seems like that. but don't loose your man girl.

@jeniel,

Yup I may talk all this shit like I know but I'm still learning & it took time. I've been with my husband for 6 years, married 5 months & I'm just getting it. I don't do well with criticism either thats what most of our arguments was about at first. The only time we argue now is when he's away because I'm lonely & want him to talk to me 24/7😔.

@sheaxx your right, my husbands love language is diffrent from mine. He likes to be encouraged, men love having there ego stroked. you have to learn how to love your man. you also need to find your love language as well. Once you sit down and talk you'll understand how to love him how he deserves to be loved. I'm not saying my relationship is perfect b.c it's not. but since I understand him more the arguments come lead often. And if I want to beat his ass I just got and clam down. also stop being petty. lol don't ignore the man. I can tell he loves you. and it's not no little kid love either. He's doing his shit to make sure u and the baby is set. if he wants to be kissed. put on his favor lip gloss ( my husband likes when I wear vanilla lip gloss) and kiss the shit out of him when he gets home. only reason I'm on his side is b.c he poured his heart out. and I can tell he loves u with all he his soul.

Yeah they pretty much telling me straight up ! They all telling me I gotta make some changes . I'm not really good on criticism but ya'll my girls . 😊❤️ @gypsy.soul2

love all the positivity you're getting ♡♡♡

Everyone perceives love differently.. Where you might feel loved when he cuddles, hugs & kiss you.. He doesn't interpret love in the same way... Maybe he wants you to ask him how's he's feeling, feel appreciated. You have to learn & love him how he wants to be loved & he has to learn to love you the way want to be loved. Communicate

@mommyto1princess, guess it just happens when you're dating/married a hard working man .

I agree with you . I just always thought I knew that I was doing whatever in my power to make him feel appreciated. Well i got fooled . @jeniel

👆🏽👆🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 @jeniel

Lmao my man is lucky if we cuddle at the end of the night. he works 10 hours a day l, I'm a SAHM and watch my 3 year old nephew. I do the same thing at the door I open the door then he comes to see me and gives me a kiss we talk about your days then we eat dinner. take care of our baby and go to bed.

I agree with him 100 percent. b.c I've been there. we look at them and want them to give us the world, but in return we still nag even if they do everything we say. Some times we push our men away. we never see how much they try. he's busting his ass and he's hurt. so your part baby girl.. encourage him, make him feel wanted. cause from what I read he's hurting and he loves you. don't push him to much cause when he's gone some one else will appreciate him. and I'm only speaking from experience. my husband and see if went through this at the beginning of My pregnancy when I stopped working. and he checked my ass real quick.

@mommyto1princess, that's what he said .. Lol

He does everything & more 😓 just sucks to think that one day he wouldn't want or crave for me the same . I started thinking he wasn't attracted to me anymore . I just got bored & unattached. All I ever wanted was for him to love & crave for me the same . Not knowing me being pregnant & "moody" & him being tired would effect that ... @sheaxx

He expect to come home to massages?

Lol thanks girly !!! & yesss 23 wells todayyyyy !!! 🙌🏽😌😍@sabby

You know with my husband being away I give that man hell everyday... And most times I just be ready to kill him. We depend on our men to do so much. Is he good to you? Does he love you? Does he provide? Does he respect you? Can you depend on him? We often look at the lil things to validate our relationship... But honey if he does everything I mentioned above everything else can be worked through. When it comes to sex my husband is always tired 🙄 and There is no foreplay it's just straight to it.. Like wham bam thank you mam, I get upset shit we planned to have this baby and when ovulating time came I basically had to make him stick to the schedule but you guys work through that.

@gypsy.soul2, I thought of that ... Just trying so hard to put pieces back together & Figure out my part in all of this .

I cried writing it 😪 @andgee24

I don't know why but what you wrote made me cry.. 😢 @xoxoalexusss

it seems like he had a lot pent up.. but the very end where he ask "what can we do to fix it.. that's important.. that's shows that he wants it to work but you should want it to work just as much.. maybe just start over together.. tell him ahead of time if you're having a bad day.. tell him space is necessary for a relationship to blossom bc distance makes the heart grow fonder.. it's ok to start over together