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My mom thinks Carson is getting separation anxiety because I was telling her he won't sleep anywhere…

My mom thinks Carson is getting separation anxiety because I was telling her he won't sleep anywhere but with me in my bed. He also cries if I face away from him while he's still awake. Is this the beginning of separation anxiety? Being a SAHM I'm with my son 24/7 literally. I never get a baby sitter he goes EVERYWHERE with me. I also out of habit do everything for him even when his dad is home so no one ever cares for him but me. Do I need to make some changes? I want what's best for us both obviously. Ugh.

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liveforyou.hope.

Tiffany

I'm going on a year and you are describing my life so I can honestly say NO DON'T CHANGE A THING. it's normal for them to want to be close to you with the nursing and separation anxiety creeps up at 3months and around 10months. it just proves your a good mom 😊 keep it up! I'm just now putting my daughter in her own bed at night and yes it's a little tough cause she don't want me to leave her but as long as I sit with her until she falls asleep she knows she is ok and when she wakes she comes banging on my door lol

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momofone00

Carly

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@momtonoasophia, thank you! :)

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liveforyou.hope.

Tiffany

the only change you should make is if you are getting a little overwhelmed or need ME time let your SO take over when he is home for a few hrs 😊 @carparker00

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momofone00

Carly

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@momtonoasophia, that's the thing I think IM the one with separation anxiety lol I want to spend every second with him

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missing369user

missing369user

Мама дочки-младенца

Could be the start. My daughter has awful separation anxiety and if I move even a foot away from her she screams and will hyperventilate and hold her breath and stop breathing. I also stay at home 24/7 with no help from anyone. Never left her for even 20 minutes before and she's 7 months old. It's common for them to act this way when you're the only one who cares for them. They feel safe with you and only you.

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liveforyou.hope.

Tiffany

Lol I was the same 😂😂 as long as you know when you need the help you let it happen. I hated letting my SO take her out for 2hrs without me even tho I needed it lol but it felt even better when I finally got her back. as he gets older you will start to lessen up. right now he's only 3months so cuddle him as much as you want lol

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missing369user

missing369user

Мама дочки-младенца

There are times where I sit on the floor with my baby to play and she will scream bloody murder if I place her on the floor just an inch away from me. She needs to be in my lap. It's very bad.

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momofone00

Carly

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@momtonoasophia, oh I do take advantage :)

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momofone00

Carly

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@mamesey, that's what I'm afraid of but I really love spending so much time with my son

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missing369user

missing369user

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@carparker00, I love spending time with my baby too and I'm not about to let her cry it out because she literally can't or she will stop breathing lol so I just answer to her needs and hope she will outgrow it when she gets older and more independent

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missing369user

missing369user

Мама дочки-младенца

My advice is to always follow your instincts when it comes to your baby

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momofone00

Carly

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@mamesey, that's worked for me so far!

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