so i no longer speak to my sperm donor due to the fact that he was bashing my fiancé and causing issues and bc he started dating my whore of a mother who is on drugs. even after i told him im not going to have her in my life. so now he is having his mother bash my fiancé and tell me that im just going to be the one working and taking care of kids whilst my fiancé isnt. im tired of the bull crap. so i told her that it is going to stop. she tried saying that to say my fiancé has a job is a joke, well he has three. so suck on that lollipop. im done i told her in no nice words that it will stop or you are out of my life too. and to think that i actually believed you when you said you cared about me bull.
makes me feel like all the time they said they tried to find me was a joke, they didnt. my fiancé found the court case where i was taken away in less than five minutes and it takes you almost 14 years to...
any advice on how to deal with this, it is stressing me out so much that its giving me stomach pains. and making me feel depressed and questioning my worth to them... ugh i hate my family so much. :'(
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I know exactly how you feel! It really sucks. My boyfriend has been the absolute best support system my whole pregnancy. He does everything for me. But every day he has a day off my dads like "not working AGAIN?" Like he only has 1 or 2 days off per week and my dad always has to say something rude when he has a day off. He asked off for my baby shower and my dad was like what are you doing here and he told him well I asked off for the shower and my dad was like why would you do something so stupid 😑 like what the hell? He's never done anything to make my dad dislike him so I don't understand why he treats him the way he does. My boyfriend even mows my dads lawn for him weekly and does everything he can to help them out around the house and yard, on top of being there for me and doing absolutely everything for me. But it's still not enough. I feel the same way as you, I don't understand why no one can be happy that I'm happy.
yep, mine wasn't thrilled about the new baby. but he offered my fiancé a job that only lasted 5 days and it would have had him gone during Christmas. it didnt even pay a lot. then got mad when my fiancé declined. now my fiancé has three very good paying jobs and my father is bashing him and getting my gma to as well. its annoying. my fiancé is always here for me, we are well provided for and his three kids love him very much. i am happy where i am, can no one be happy that i am happy? @emkasting
My dad bashes my boyfriend constantly, and for no reason. He hasn't shown one bit of interest in my pregnancy. When he first found out he stopped talking to me. Now even though he has started talking to me he never asks how I am or how the baby is, or even what we decided to name him. he's constantly being rude to my boyfriend who never does anything but help out. It's so frustrating so I can understand not being a fan of your own father. I would love to cut him out completely. I'm staying with my parents for the next few weeks until my house is ready so I'm having to deal with him constantly. Not cool
After re reading I was like OH your sperm donor as in your father not the father of YOUR child lmao. I need to proof read lol. If it gave you a good laugh though then I'm glad :)
thank you lol. no i saw that and was like whhhaaat? made my night. @emkasting
OH okay I understand now, sorry I must have misread lol. I'm sorry you're going through this, I hope everything works itself out and gets better for you asap
no @emkasting. my grandmother and my father are bashing my fiancé and being disrespectful. i cut my father out of my life bc he is dating my whore of a mother that got me taken away and then when i find her years later she is still doing drugs and the things that got me taken away in the first place. my fiancé is dating me. lol sorry.
yeah im trying, the problem is she sends me letters and its really annoying. @ktwins188 im about to press charges.
my advice is stop the fighting ingore them sine your feeling pain in your belly its not food at all
yep so I just cut him out. i aint got time for that negativity.