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Каждый день, уходя на работу, муж говорит мне что-то в стиле не напрягайся сегодня. Все это потому что я то не выспалась, то с давлением что-то на улице и у меня голова болит (я стала метеочувствительна после родов) или ещё что-то. Я реально не устаю, уже месяц, как мы не гуляем, сын спит на балконе 2 часа, а я немножко шуршу по дому, но максимум минут 40-50, потом час просто валяюсь, а в вечерний сон так вообще ложусь спать с малышом в обнимку. Дома у нас не стерильно, я не намываю полы каждый день (а надо бы!), готовлю раз в 2 дня, глажу раза 2 в неделю, но почему ж я тогда такая разбитая? Наверное, надо ходить гулять все-таки, но тогда как успевать хоть что-то по дому, по-меньше лениться? Но это ж не про меня... Уверена, что я не одна такая ленивая жопа!

Hey mommys please help me on what I should do My fiancé goes to work every morning around 12 and doesn't get home till 8 my baby is always fussy so I barely get to eat or drink anything all day bc I'm dealing with him but that's beside the point when my fiancé gets home he gets him something to eat and doesn't care that I haven't ate anything all day and he will ask me to make him something or get him something to drink and then he will go straight to the chair and watch tv so I hand our son to him and he gets so mad telling me he worked all day and blah blah or if he starts crying he will get mad and say omg why I he crying or if I ask him to do just anything he never want to do it he will get so mad I have to fight with him just so I can take a shower every night but I have gotten to the point where I'm just so tired of him and if I'm going to be treated like a single mom then I should just be a single mom am I wrong for this or what should I do I love him to death but I'm so ready

Having a really rough time lately . As I've posted before, my fiancé passed away in November when I was only 8 weeks pregnant. I am now almost 20 weeks pregnant and we have a 20 month old daughter as well. I am beyond worried, stressed, and overwhelmed trying to figure out the next step . Working right now is not a great option because I am high risk but I don't know how I will be able to afford to provide for my daughters and their future with only my daughters social security check. And when I can work, leaving my child so young in the care of a daycare or someone else is terrifying. All I can think about is this shouldn't be happening. He should be here and we should be together as a family instead of being so broken..

Okay so I am reaaally trying to not blow up right now. My fiancée has always worked late night and graveyard shifts, recently quit his old job and got a new one, only part time though. Anyways, so he's been home a lot more lately and therefore has drastically changed my routine with myself and baby Melody...she has been going through a growth spurt, and yes it is normal for sleep patterns to vary and cluster feeding and whatnot...but I try and make it easier on her and I both usually by gently getting her to sleep, and then either putting on a wave noise maker or just being quiet and having a sleepy environment so she stays asleep. But now that he's home all night more and all day, despite my best efforts to try and help him switch to sleeping earlier and waking earlier, which he agreed he wanted to do, he's been staying up all damn night and sleeping all day. Even when we have shit to do and he stays up all day, he'll STILL keep us up at night. And that's when he chooses to do everyth

no matter how hard I work my fiancé always thinks he works harder and no matter how bad I feel my fiancé always thinks he feels worse (literally every time I say I have a headache his response is "well I have a MIGRAINE") no matter how little sleep I get he has no sympathy. every time I ask him to do something he's like "I just want to come home and relax. I actually worked today" as if I didn't work too but apparently being a waitress isn't work. so fed up! sorry for ranting just frustrated

so my fiance calls me on his breaks at work. he gets 2 10 min and 1 20min... I hung up on him this phone call bc he called me lazy for not wanting to cook dinner. uhm he gets off at 11 pm from KY, I'm tired by 9.. we had left over chicken from last night that I made.. I do way too much to be getting told I'm lazy.. I'm up with the toddler everyday day, feeding her, clothing her, and I even give his ass head and back rubs.. I haven't gotten a back rub or a simple "thanks baby, I know this pregnancy has been kicking your ass but you're doing great". TODAY. I am not taking any sh*t. ugh! but I told him how I felt and made sure he knew I loved him still.. but damn

so my husband (against my wishes) is starting his second job tomorrow 😢😢😢 he will work one job from 3 am to 1 pm and go straight to the other job from 2 to 10 pm. I am so frusturated with him I've just sat and cried. I am 8 months pregnant with an 11 year old as well as 1 year old. he's off one job sat. and sun. but works the other one both days.... I'm so overwhelmed already I have no idea how I'm going to deal with the lonliness. I know we money and to catch up on some things but I'd rather go without things than go without the help around the house. this is my third pregnancy and I can hardly lift my one year old as it is let alone bathing him and carrying laundry....omg just posting about it makes me cry

Okay ladies if I can get your advice that would be great. So my fiancé and I had our daughter about 7 weeks ago. She is feeding well, sleeping all the time and I am with her 24/7. My fiancé works throughout the day and then comes home. He comes home all he wants to do is be on his phone or lay down and watch tv. I know that when he gets home from work he is tired and wants to just relax but I find myself taking care of her all the time, when she's fussy during the night I am the one who gets up with her because he is such a heavy sleeper. I have talked to him countless times letting him know that I would like some more help due to the fact that I am tired too from constantly getting up and he says he will get up more but I can't seem to get him to do that. What should I do ?

У мужа закончился отпуск. Ненавижу обе его работы из-за графика 2/1, т.е. 2 дня из трёх он дома только под утро или глубокой ночью. А в его выходной нужно успеть убраться, приготовить всем поесть на пару дней вперед, собрать банки с едой на работу, погулять, сходить в магазин и помыться (полностью, а не частями)! И так по кругу😑 А в марте его коллега уходит в отпуск на три недели и график будет 5/1, ппц! Как я хочу, чтобы каждый вечер он приходил домой! Хочу ужинать и проводить вечер всем вместе! А то так вообще фигня какая-то😭 Устала, поныла😕

I LOVE ALL MY KIDS TO DEATH. but OMG I need a break. I need just a day to sleep and relax. I feel I am almost to a breaking point. All I do all day is yell and put them in time out. Christian won't let me put him down for anything. hubby won't wake up for anything. and that's making me even more mad. my feelings are on another level. I can't do this anymore. 👿

I know some people are gonna tell me I'm lucky & to quit bitching, but whatever. I don't work, my fiancé doesn't want me to work & financial we're good without me working. & I have close to zero interaction with anyone besides my soon to be mother in law & fiancé. I'm so lonely & bored. I hate just sitting at the house all day long. I wanna work or hang out with someone.

My fiancé is about to start working 14 hours a day, 7 days a week. I know he needs and wants to do this to support his little family, but my heart hurts.

idk how much longer i can do this. i hardly get any sleep and im working all the time plus taking care of my 18 month old son and im 23 weeks pregnant. im exhausted all the time but my fiance hasnt been home and he always seems to go to bed before me and i stay up with our son. i can feel my body being exhausted and weak but its not going to change anything if i tell him cause he has serious family issues right now. i dont know what to do

VENT: Annoyed with my husband!!! I just worked 26 hours in the past 48, I've had 3 hours sleep. My husband was home with the kids. I get home today around 5, we have no food and I don't have time to do a big shopping. He immediately goes in the bedroom to sleep! WTF! I'M left with a mess and hungry kids and his excuse is he's working tonight! I'm running on 3 hours sleep! I run to the store, my 12 year old keeps an eye on the 3 year old and the baby, I grab hamburgers to make. I come home clean up, my wonderful son helps cook, the 3 year old is BOUNCING OFF THE WALLS, peed his pants, made a mess, the baby is screaming, and where's my husband? not "sleeping" playing on his Fucking phone in bed! He acts like he did so much because I was working all weekend, I do it all the time! So I give the kids a bath, get them in bed, the 3 year old didn't eat all his dinner and was misbehaving so no television, my husband calmed him down till he fell asleep (I'm a softy I would've gave in). FINALLY

I'm getting so annoyed with my fiance thinking taking care of our daughter alone all day is so easy. she hardly gives me a chance to do anything. I can't even go take a shit let alone clean without her being fussy. and when he comes home he gets so pissed if something isn't done. THEN doesn't even want to help with her. I'll ask him to feed her once he gets home and he's always like " can you " don't get me wrong I love every second with my daughter ! she's the best thing that's ever happened to me. but a little help never hurts.

Right before I found out I was pregnant, I lost my job, and now my fiance doesn't want me working which I love cause he can support us. I feel like the house wife, the house is always spotless, our babies room is literally all put together. He never does his laundry, or puts it away and I always have dinner ready when he gets home. The only thing he does, is takes the trash out cause he doesn't want me lifting it :) and changes the litter box. But now that I'm almost 6 months I feel like I'm going crazy with boredom... if you guys are in the same situation I am, how do you like it, and what do you do to keep yourself occupied???? I feel like I'm gonna loose my mind sometimes.. their is only so much I can do, in this crappy weather.

Am I the only one who hate being home alone wen their husband, fiance or boyfriend leave. I'm scared I may go into labor and he's somewhere I can't reach him.

Tomorrow I go back to work been on vacation since Christmas Eve, not looking forward to dealing with cats and dogs from 7-230 😕 I get to be on my feet the whole time plus clean everything Yaay!!

Sometimes I wish I lived alone with my other two kids but I'm 36 weeks pregnant and no job or support from anyone. My fiancé thinks he doesn't need to call me if he's going to be late after work sometime all the dinner I cook goes to waste.. Then he takes care of his daughter Thursday and Friday nights after work at his moms because the girl he cheated on me with and had a daughter with doesn't want me to go by their daughter so I don't even see him until Saturday afternoon I'm so fed up idk what to do he pays all the bills I don't even know where to turn to

I am extremely overwhelmed. My Bf don't work... don't help around the house & couldn't be anymore distant. I'm busting my a$$ SIX days a week at work at least 50 hours a week along with house work and taking care of my 9 year old. How do I know when to throw in the towel 😢

as much as I do like being busy and the extra income, I really wish I could stay home throughout my pregnancy. pulling 9 hour days plus the gym plus taking care of all of the cooking and cleaning for two adults/large dog is really wearing on me. I keep getting sick because I work with children and two days isn't enough time to recover 😟 seriously exhausted

I need advice!!!! My fiancé works 12 hour shifts on Friday-Sunday and obviously when he gets off work he is tired but he acts like I don't do anything ( I chase after a fast baby all day) and then wants to talk to me like I'm crap and I'm fed up with it, especially when it's in front of my son.

NEED ADVICE!!! So my boyfriend has a full time job Monday-Friday and I work part time bc of me being pregnant, and I just feel like I'm not bringing anything to the table. I cook for him clean for him and he never complains about anything but I just feel like I should be doing just as much as him ...

My job is going to get tiring real fast, I'm a veterinary technician and Im literally on my feet all day, back and forth outta surgeries, exam rooms, walking dogs, wrestling with these big dogs to get them to stay still so we can draw blood etc.. lifting the dogs. It's going to get too much too soon, I can tell.

I'm Ready To Deliver My Baby Girl😞 Been Going Through So Much & It's Making Her Stress. I Try So Hard To Be Happy But Financially I Can't. I Need To Get Back To Work Soon, Hate Not Having Money To Buy Things For Me, My Daughter, Pay Bills Or Get Out Of Debt. I Hate To See My Dad Pay For Everything. His Great Guy For Giving Me A Hand But His Over Doing It On Himself & His My Old Man😞 You Can Tell His Tired & Is Holding On To Keep Family Of 6 Together. Can't Wait To Work, Time Needs To Come Faster 😿