I'm over it ?
Not that I take care of the kids 24/7 and get an attitude when i wake him for work. When I shouldn't have to be a baby sitter to a grown man. Who complains all the time about being too tired but can stay out late after work every day and come home and not do a thing. While I juggle packing, the children (one who is only 8w old), and still try to set aside time for college and work myself. Who gets mad when I go to the bathroom and my oldest can't calm her infant sister for the minute that it takes. Not that I cry myself to sleep some nights and during the day because I'm having flashbacks of what happened a year ago and you won't comfort me because it's too much for you to handle even though it happened to me. Not that you lie about your location when I ask, and somehow you're 4 cities away when you just told me you were at work still. Something I knew was a lie because it's 3hrs past your shift and they never keep you that late. When I've been waiting for my card, that you took because you were going to buy breakfast for me and Starr, but we've been up for 4hrs with no food to eat because I couldn't go shopping because you won't watch the baby so I can walk to the store. I'm tired of it and I'm done. I didn't sign up for this and I told you the moment I found out I was pregnant with the baby, that I refuse to do all the work because I refuse to deal with another deadbeat.
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I have a meeting with my apartment manager tomorrow so moving will already be easy. I took our important stuff and left. I'm also on my new lease alone.
Let's hope his family doesn't blow up my phone.
Wait what? Girl, you deserve way better than that! You need to get out of there and know your worth! Don't let him walk all over you, lie to you, put you in bad positions, etc. You are valuable and precious and deserve to be treated as such! Get out of there and show him he ain't shat.
Because he used to do so much for my oldest, but now he's not even doing a thing for his baby.
I decided today was the last straw. I've told him countless times I don't care that he goes somewhere but I am the mother of his child and I want to know where he is, because of his seizures, in case he ends up in the hospital. Sure go out, but don't take hours of you have my only money and there's no food to feed the oldest.
I'm so sorry you're dealing with this OP. It may seem like a difficult, maybe even impossible move to make just fathoming it, but best thing you could ever do for yourself AND your kids is to leave. No matter how much he promises to change in every fight. If you stay he'll continue to think he can act this way and treat you poorly. Leaving will only prove to him he can't push you around and put his lack of parenting on you. He's neglecting his fatherly duties and neglecting the relationship you share. I hope you find strength to stand up to him. ❤️
I'm just waiting for my social security card, and the girls' cards. That's the last piece of paperwork I need and they're already resorting out my rent.