I'm SO beyond frustrated! 😤😡 my husband and I literally have ZERO support system! All our family live 10+ hours away... we have 1 couple that moved here that we know, who are supposedly our 'best friends' we are ALWAYS there for them when they need something... but it's NEVER the other way around! 🙄😒 I literally have been battling high blood pressure for weeks trying to keep my daughter cooking as long as possible... I've asked for help MANY times, she's even agreed to help several times, but shows up several hours late, just before my husband gets home from work... 🙄thanks, but I needed help several hours ago! I have 2 weeks before they are going to induce me (that's if I can my BP under control) and I have a bunch of stuff I still need to do, you think she'd offer to help... fuck no! They call to borrow our Zoo membership, so they can take some other friends of theirs to the Zoo for free! 😡 meanwhile, My husband and I are trying to shop for stuff... my toddler is completely loosing her shit, I'm having to ride around in one of those scooters because the tiny baby is making it almost impossible to walk... can't go down half the isles because they are doing inventory and have shit stacked up everywhere... so I was like FUCK IT! Threw a bunch of shit I was looking at back on the shelf and just left! 😤🤦♀️ I give up! I don't have half my stuff needed for the new baby because I let 'friends' borrow it and have yet to get any of it back... my daughters birthday is in 8 days, I have nothing planned, baby could literally come any day... and instead of having some help, I got people wanting to borrow our Zoo pass! I need a damn drink! Oh wait... 😄😳😒🙄can't have that either! 🙄🤦♀️
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Knoxville is a great city just saying. I love being there for you and others.
@athomas, I know you would! It's crazy... you have totally been more support than she has over the last couple of weeks... You have been adjusting to your new baby, and have checked up on me more than she has! 🙄🤦♀️ I seriously feel like I get more love and support from ladies on here than I do from my 'friend'! I have a nurse that comes out once a month for well visits on my daughter, I swear she's more of a friend than 'my best friend' she's been texting me everyday, asking how I'm doing, offering suggestions... I mean seriously, I'm her client... but she's always sending me events and stuff that are going on around town, things she knows I'd enjoy... we don't 'hang out' but she probably puts more thought into who I am, and what I'd enjoy than my only 'friend'... I'll be happy to have this baby, be able to move again, and then go meet some new people! I need good people in my life!
@sam-i-am, my husband told them we were not home, we had shit to do, if they wanted the pass they should not have waited to the last second to ask... lets just say he's not all too happy either!
Im sorry your going through that. If I was closer I would definitely help you out.
I would of been like yea u can have my zoo pass if u help me get all the shit I need to get done, done!
@beebaby, it's beyond annoying! I literally took off work and stayed with her in the hospital when she had her first, then after she got married and had her second, he did not have any vacation time so I stayed in the hospital every day and night that he was not available, and then came over for over two weeks daily to help do her dishes and other chores, took care of the baby so she could shower and nap while her husband was at work... made them dinners... you know, all the things a 'best friend' does for someone who just had a baby... maybe my expectations are unrealistic... but I was taught you do things like that for people... she keeps telling me she wants to be there for me like I was with her... but literally the week I'm scheduled to have the baby she and her husband are going to a damn biker rally... THEY DONT EVEN RIDE!!! Her husband works with my husband, and they are literally the ONLY 2 people in the whole company who do their job, so yet again, my husband will probably be working in the delivery room while I'm being induced! Same thing happened when I had my first, the guy who was to do the job went on vacation and was not answering his pages... so I'm literally in labor, and my husband is trying to put out fires at work! 😤😡 you'd think that when your 'best friend' who was having a high risk pregnancy, and was going to be induced at 37 weeks, you'd try to be helpful, and be there for her, especially since your husband's are the only people that can do a job, you'd let the guy who's wife is about to have a baby not have to worry about it! 🙄🤦♀️ apparently that's not how it works.., heaven forbid, they miss out on some drunk crazies they see once a year, to reduce our stress! 🙄😤 I just must live in a different reality from everyone else!
It really sucks you have to deal with that especially at this crucial time, where you really need reliable people to help you and your husband.
I know it's frustrating, but please try to take a step back and relax. If there are any things you can simplify or cut down on try to do that. And I'm sure your daughter will understand if you can't go above and beyond and you just put a few special things together for her. And these "friends" are really out of line and unfortunately maybe should reconsider how they treat people around them. I would be very hesitant after an ordeal like this to continue taking their calls, especially when their main concern seems to be how others can benefit them.. ☹️
So sorry to hear that i are going through that, sounds like my life... due to my mom still being im icu and well i have family around but they dont help.... u'd figure family and friends would help when ur high risk but pls, my fiancee and i our doing by ourselves....i wish u all the best, u will get through this and the fake ppl will fall by the way side... dont lwst that stress u, continue to pray ans keep that precious one baking....their not worthy of raiaing ur bp...
But i understand