I am 22 weeks pregnant, and I am the homemaker. I cater to my kids, my husband, and myself , because my husband works his tail end off. I take of three kids 5 years, 3 years, and 2 years, all while keeping a three bedroom two bath cleaned. I also do the cooking, and while my husband does help. I really do not need it, as long as he spends time with his kids. I am that woman, that unless I am on bedrest. Do not treat me as a disabled woman, while pregnant. If I can do it, I will. Even though my husband does help, I can still get it done. I was raised by an independent single mom, so I know women are strong. NEVER LET ANYONE THINK DIFFERENT.