Thanks both. He's done a 15 minute walk to my moms and then used the toilet there but I took him to our local card shop the other day and he just said he needs to pee and stood and did it in his pants, I was a hit exasperated but I figured we are 5 mins from home he can survive wet pants. I'll just keep trying with the shirt journeys and reiterating having a wee before we leave, thank you x

I tired to get him to pee standing up in the park the other day and he just looked at me like I was mad 🙈😂 x