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Ajaecymone

How Can I Cope with My Boyfriend's Betrayal and Lies?

This girl sent me videos on snapchat of her and my boyfriend having sex and he’s lying to everyone trying to make me seem crazy but I see his entire face in the video. The girl is saying she is pregnant by him and he’s lying saying “it’s someone that looks like me it’s not me in the video” I’m just so tired of him taking me for a joke. I have to go through this and our son is due January 1st he’s yelling at me for crying honestly I don’t even want him in the room when I have my son I can’t even look at him and he’s acting like the victim when he got caught. I left my moms house to go live with him in his moms basement where I am barely welcomed. With all this going on I can’t even be excited for my sons arrival I never imagined my pregnancy to be like this and I went through his phone and his friend called me fat and he did nothing but laugh. I’m just tired of feeling like I’m no one, like I’m not important, no one should treat their kids mother like this.

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del_1579025334_lorrinleigh

Deleted

Girl. Move back to your moms. You don’t need some liar in your life. ❤️❤️❤️

alicianoelle32

AliciaNoelle

you need to separate yourself from that toxic situation. Go HOME you don’t need to be spending the final weeks of your pregnancy depressed over a lying piece of shit.

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del_1579025334_lorrinleigh

Deleted

Girl. Move back to your moms. You don’t need some liar in your life. ❤️❤️❤️

noahandcarlosmommy_

ceci💕

Мама сына (1 год)

i'm sorry your going through this..from my experience with the father of my son i was in labor and i found out he was cheating..i know right now it's hard but be happy your son is coming don't let him take that happiness away from you..i know right now it hurts but you know what time heals focus on yourself and your son he lost a good thing now focus on moving forward for you and your son go back to your moms

ajaecymone184

Ajaecymone

I really appreciate this honestly it makes me feel a little better. I know I need to move forward and just be a good mom to my son.

alicianoelle32

AliciaNoelle

you need to separate yourself from that toxic situation. Go HOME you don’t need to be spending the final weeks of your pregnancy depressed over a lying piece of shit.

beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice

What's It To You?

Fuuuuuck that. Leave.

thisisnotaname

Thisisnotaname

You deserve more then what he can give you . You and this baby need to get away from him and his toxic family . Please ! Go back to your moms hunny . You already have the best that he can ever give . And it's the Baby growing inside of you . Please dont except what he has done . Please know your way better off without him . YOU ARE TO GOOD FOR HIM !!!

ajaecymone184

Ajaecymone

You’re right I need to go home I just wanted my son to have both his parents but I’m not wanted here and I am not comfortable being around him.

dope.ass.mom

Nikki

Im so sorry! Leave while you still have a few days to & go back to your mom's. What a dirty mf!!

ajaecymone184

Ajaecymone

I plan on leaving tomorrow

thisisnotaname

Thisisnotaname

seen this and stole it for you .

meta.momma

Celeste

You are so beautiful and you deserve more than you're getting. No one should be treated like this. It's your labor and delivery. Make sure to put yourself first.

ajaecymone184

Ajaecymone

Thank you for the encouraging words. I really appreciate this ❤️

meta.momma

Celeste

always 💛

sharkbait.

Angelica

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (7 нед.)

Babe, go home. Your mom will take you back. I know it's easier said than done but don't put your baby in that situation where his father can't even respect you. How is he going to treat women when he grows up if he's watching what he's doing to you. You and your son both deserve better, I'm sure you won't be doing this alone. I'm sorry this happened.

ajaecymone184

Ajaecymone

Thank you so much I really appreciate the advice honestly you are right my son doesn’t need to be in this situation where his mom isn’t welcomed.

travis9347

vanessa

Please go back with your mama you need to remove this toxic man out of your life i know its hard right now but believe me one day u will be happy u left.....


Ps you are not crazy this happend to me differently but i caught my man in the shower with my best friend both of them kept saying its in my head they didn't do nothing wrong and bla bla bla they just want to play games with your head

ajaecymone184

Ajaecymone

That’s horrible and that’s what he is doing trying to make me seem stupid. I know I need to leave and I wanted my son to grow up with his parents in the same household but you’re right I can’t hold on to a toxic situation. It’s always easier said than done though I’m just scared for the future and I don’t feel like I can do this by myself like I know my mom and family will help but I know for the most part I will be doing it by myself but It’s a lot better than being surrounded by the energy I’m feeling right now from him and his family.

travis9347

vanessa

you said if you leave you'll do it by yourself but no your family will help but this man of yours will probably go and cheat more and leave you alone imagine being stuck alone with the baby while he gors out partying and doing other girls ... mama i swear your better off with your family

thisisnotaname

Thisisnotaname

Dont be scared ... I believe in you ! I believe you can do anything you set your mind on . Dont look back hun . This will be way worse if u stay and leave later . Better to leave him sooner then later . Right now it's you. Later u will have to think of two you and ur child . Also like travis said . He will leave you with the baby and be out with who doing who knows what . While u sit and stress and go crazy in ur head thinking about all the things he could be doing . That will be to much for you and ur baby to have to go through . It's no way to live . I'm here for u if you need to talk . If u need to be put in check again . Your doing the right thing by leaving him now . I promise you . And I promise things will be much better without that sorta thing going on around you and your child . Xo ❤

boymama523

Bye

You know what you need to do pretty mama. Don’t stand for that. Your son will love you like nobody else. He will look into your eyes and know it’s you and it’ll be a love and relationship like no other. You don’t need this other guy. Once a cheater always a cheater. Don’t let your son grow up around that. Time to call your mom.

ajaecymone184

Ajaecymone

Thank you for these encouraging words. I honesty needed this I’m gonna give my mom a call tomorrow. ❤️

boymama523

Bye

wonderful. Good luck mama and enjoy that baby boy!

j.luciano

Rubiaxo

Oh honey. I’m so sorry you’re going through that. You don’t need that kind of bullshit in your life. You deserve so much better. Move back in with your mom.


Hope everything works out for you 🙏🏼🤞🏼💕

coffeebean

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸

LEAVE HIM. He’s a piece of shit foreal. And she’s a MEGA whore for doing it KNOWING he had a girl and knowing enough that she chose to record and send to you was even dirtier. That wasn’t her looking out, that’s her being a PROUD hoe. I would have screenrecorded and posted em everywhere foreal.

ekko

The EK 💋

I’m so sorry! Pack up & go back to your mom’s now. He’s not gonna change. It’ll be easier to move now before you have the baby.

sharkbait.

Angelica

Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (7 нед.)

@ajaecymone184 you're right! no one should treat their kids mother like that. You should be excited about your son's arrival. Have that baby and go home to your mom's. You'll be glad that you found out now than later. Your son can still have both parents later in life but right now he only needs You. ❤️

ke-ke

Keeosha Fennell

Honey.. move back to your moms house you don’t need him and I wouldn’t let him in the room either fuck him

bsr2016

Hannah R

You and your baby deserve more than that. Move back with your family, he’s obviously comfortable lying to you when you have video proof. Your feelings are valid and it’s not “hormonal”. He betrayed you- he doesn’t deserve you.

ss3mom

Ss3mom

Wow what a dirtbag. I’m really sorry but don’t forget he’s the one who did wrong not u. I’m happy to read you’re going back to your moms. That’s the best place for u and your child to be right now. He’s a pos and he doesn’t deserve another second of tour time. I’m happy u realized that u don’t want your son to be brought up like this, most women don’t understand that history will only repeat itself and your son will never learn to treat a women right if his father is his role model. U two are better off apart for your sake and your sons. Also don’t ever feel like you’re not important you’re the most important person to your son!! Do whatever u need to to protect yourself and your child.

srs062010

Sarah Sanders

Мама сына (4 года)

Leave him, you have your son to think of and that guy isn’t worth your time. Your family will help you with your son and you won’t do it alone. Trust me life will be so much better then the toxic situation you’re in now. Your mom can be with you while you give birth, you need positive energy with you not toxic or negative. He lost a good thing thats on him not you.

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