my sons dad texted me today and said “I need a test to make sure he’s my kid since you won’t let me see him” and I told him okay but this really pisses me off because he’s making it seem like I’m not letting him see the baby because I’m not sure he’s the dad and because I’m still “mad” about him cheating. When in reality my doctor said he doesn’t need to leave the house unless necessary for the first 6 weeks and I don’t feel it’s necessary just so the baby can go meet his family? My mom has opened our home to them to come visit with the baby despite everything that happened with his mom not giving me the gifts she bought my son and them making me feel unwanted at their home. So like I don’t understand where this is even coming from?? I also set it up for the paternity test to happen next week with a time and date and after I told him the price he says “well nah it’s okay I was just kidding” like nope. I’ll just go ahead and pay it because I’m not dealing with this later on, months from now when he’s mad about something and he uses the whole “he’s not mine” to get back at me. He doesn’t realize how that makes me look like why did you even sign the birth certificate if you felt this way? I’m just over all of this tbh... one minute he’s sending me text wanting to make things right and be a family next minute he’s on social media saying he’s tryna get his “dick wet” I would never keep my son from his dad because of my own personal reasons but I just don’t want him around me at all. It’s getting to a point where I don’t even wanna see his face. I’m really starting to hate him
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How long is the process if I go the child support route? How soon could we get a test
@ajaecymone184, it just depends on the state and just have them take the money out his checks that’s what I did mine didn’t take long
My bd is the same way! I tried even getting a dna 🧬 test through his family. Nobody wants to do it! I’m so over people
@ajaecymone184, GIRL. I was offering it before the question ever came up. I know EXACTLY who her dad is. Don’t play with me 😒
@kedrababy, And him and his family still are playing games? They know he’s the dad to he just doesn’t want to test because he knows when those results show he is the father he will have to step up and take responsibility!
girl I'm not trying to sound bitter but that's when you take him for child support where they will make HIM pay for the test since he the one questioning paternity
sorry this just made me so upset for you. HE cheated and now he's saying that it might not be his 🙄 I'd hit him with "you the one that cheated, are you sure that I'm the mother?"
Nope I agree completely my mom said the same thing and he knows he’s the dad or else I wouldn’t have lived in his mother’s house if I knew it was another possibility. Like you said he’s just trying to manipulate me and make me feel bad thinking I’ll let the baby go with him which I’m not. He was there when the doctor said 6 weeks so I’m not sure why he’s trying to use this as an excuse or like he doesn’t know why I don’t want to travel with the baby. Do you know how long the process is if I go the child support route?
@dankerson, lol right he’s wondering if he’s the dad when he’s the one that’s been cheating like are you serious? 🙄🤦🏽♀️
First of all. You had him?! Yay! Congrats!
Second of all, get that dna test yourself and slap that child support on his bitch ass. His family can come to you to meet him. You don't have to leave the house while you are healing during flu season to go to them. They know where he lives
It’s crazy my mom literally said the same thing! Also thank you!!! 💙
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Fuk all that there’s no reason to have that conversation go to the child support office and they will do paternity from there and block his number simple ...or tell him he’s the one worried about not you go pay for it himself block him and anyone that knows him 💯 the child support office will contact you