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Its almost 11. Put my son to bed at 9:20 and he has bee. Down here 5 times already i am about to loose it. And when he…

Its almost 11. Put my son to bed at 9:20 and he has bee. Down here 5 times already i am about to loose it. And when he is upstairs i hear walking around and no one else isnup there but for my daughter who is sleeping. Im sooooo close. I havent had any time to myself at all. Im sore as hell and just want 30 minutes!! Butnnow im about to go to sleep and i just know its going be about 10 more times my son comes to me of some made up injury or how hes thirsty. I might not have any hair by tomorrow morning im so stressed ane pissed but trying to keep calm

Adhd or not rules are rules and he needs to be in bed trying to sleep. Im so over this and dont know what to do

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beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice

What's It To You?

Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Go buy more melatonin if you can't find it today. His schedule is messing up and it's not his fault. Yes it may irritate you but you need to consider why it's happening. It used to irritate the hell outta me when my baby step brother was constantly up and down the stairs at night. My step dad started having him take melatonin per his doctors recommendation an hour before bed time. During that time he sat in bed with a book, a bottle of water and he'd get a piece of fruit if he was hungry.

In summer time/during good weather they would go on walks/bike rides to run any energy out of him. It worked pretty well.

Don't punish for something he was born with. That may end up hurting him mentally in the end. He can't control how his brain functions and it's nobodies fault.

anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

He still needs to stay in bed. Definitely not punishing him because he cant sleep but hes not even trying and he still needs to follow rules. Went and bought some the next day

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beetlejuice_beetlejuice_beetlejuice

What's It To You?

Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

Go buy more melatonin if you can't find it today. His schedule is messing up and it's not his fault. Yes it may irritate you but you need to consider why it's happening. It used to irritate the hell outta me when my baby step brother was constantly up and down the stairs at night. My step dad started having him take melatonin per his doctors recommendation an hour before bed time. During that time he sat in bed with a book, a bottle of water and he'd get a piece of fruit if he was hungry.

In summer time/during good weather they would go on walks/bike rides to run any energy out of him. It worked pretty well.

Don't punish for something he was born with. That may end up hurting him mentally in the end. He can't control how his brain functions and it's nobodies fault.

anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

He still needs to stay in bed. Definitely not punishing him because he cant sleep but hes not even trying and he still needs to follow rules. Went and bought some the next day

hawkinz411

Princess Peach

My daughter is the same way I stay up sometimes till 2am 🤷‍♀️ doesn’t bother me one bit as a mom you learn that sleeping isn’t a thing lol 😆 especially with a child that’s hyperactive she will sleep for like only 5 hours my son on the other hand sleep for 12. Everyone’s different.

hawkinz411

Princess Peach

@anicole3285, eh what?? That’s what adhd does to your body it’s near impossible to wind yourself down after being jacked up all day. So why punish your child for this and say he’s using it to his advantage ?? Find a way to get his energy out before bed

anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

@imback i knkw what it is abd how it affects.

anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

@imback yes i do

tittysprinkles

🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦Shandi🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'm sorry I have to be blunt it might be hard on you but look through his eyes it's ten times harder on him. he can control it it's a constant battle of body and mind once he has the in his brain he can't just turn it off cause he wants to. and he is not doing it just to piss you off so taking stuff out punishments and getting angry isn't gonna do anything my son has adhd and use to be like this until we made bed time an hour long event he starts reading a book to mentally and physically calm down an hour before bed no tv no games or cell phones. also look into therapy programs to help him and you learn this stuff. it's not a choice for him and having adhd is more than just being a "hyper " child way more complicated

tittysprinkles

🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦Shandi🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@anicole3285 sure tell yourself that 👏👏 whatever makes you feel better

anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

@maryfnpoppinsbitch 😉👍👍

kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

Мама троих детей

Just start punishing him or taking things out his room every time he gets out the bed there’s no reason he can’t lay in the bed 🤷🏼‍♀️ he’s old enough to listen

tittysprinkles

🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦Shandi🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

excuse me do some God damn research clearly you have no fucking idea what you are talking about

tittysprinkles

🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦Shandi🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts 👏👏👏👏👏 thank you

kush_queen420

Your Worst Nightmare 😘

Мама троих детей

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts, same 🤣🤣🤦🏽‍♀️

eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

Sistersmainpiece

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

He may need something to help him sleep. Is he on any ADHD meds? Try to understand how he might be feeling. I know it’s frustrating.

anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts he'll stay up for hours on end. Ive tried that. Ive been thinking pf a weighted blanket. He has sensory processing issues also and anxiety and i know all that can be hwlped with weighted blanket. Ive looked into it just havent gotten yet

eatmyassfromtheback-kthanks

Sistersmainpiece

Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

that sounds like a good idea. I hope that helps him. I’m apart of a group on fb for parents who have children with mental health issues. Let me know if you want to join. It’s a support group and they have good advice and ideas. Find what works for him and just remember sometimes it takes time to figure out what he responds to. Sometimes changing the routine helps them as well. Maybe try to start bed time earlier. Even cutting out certain foods and drinks help. I’m here if you ever want to chat.

anicole3285

Amanda

Мама троих детей

@dontblockmesis-imjustspeakingfacts thank you yes id like to join

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